A Woman's "Don'ts" of Online Dating
There are some things that women should never do while engaged in an online relationship with a man. These things are certain to put a quick and final end to any further communications with him.
While chatting online or by email do not write your life story. His eyes will glaze over and he will fall out of his chair. Keep it short and sweet until he asks for details"¦then provide them slowly and only answer the questions he asks. For instance: If he asks how many siblings you have, he is NOT asking for the details of your interaction with them. He really just wants to know how many you have. Say you have 2 (Or whatever is true) and then ask how many he has. For every question he asks you, you should ask one of him. Nothing turns a man off like a long- winded woman who just doesn't know when to shut up or how to listen.
Never, ever, EVER lie. I really believe that lies will catch up with you sooner or later. Many women (And men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight and a host of other things in their online profiles. That is a huge mistake. If you find a man who you are really interested in, he will find out you lied and there goes any possibility of the relationship progressing. So, just be honest. There is someone out there who will like you"¦even come to love you"¦for exactly the person you are.
Don't be too eager. It makes you look desperate and it really puts a man off. They are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest. I don't mean play "Hard-to-get". I mean, don't push for a face-to-face meeting. Don't email them or I'm them too frequently. Play it safe and play it cool.
Women Do Not Do This - Online Dating (Hover)
Nearly half of women who use social media say they have been sexually victimized. A total of 261 women aged 13-72 took part in an anonymous online survey about their online experiences, with 46 per cent reporting sexual victimization. The most frequent experience was being asked to share sexual images of themselves, followed by receiving unsolicited sexual images and requests to talk about sex. Source 2j.
Why would women take such a risk when there are so many creeps out there that make themselves out to be so nice when they're just maniacs with an internet connection.
Abelard,
I think it's because there are so many creeps in bars who only look at a woman if she has a perfect figure rather than try to know them for who they are. After enough of that, anyone would be ready to try something new. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people hiding behind keyboards that are bad people.
The thrill is in finding someone 'perfect' and portraying yourself maybe a little better than you are to the person online is the appealing part but often women are just too trusting with their fantasies of prince charming on the other end.