One of the biggest challenges I see us having here in Trinidad & Tobago (as I'm sure it is elsewhere) is that of waiting for somebody (else) to fix what's wrong.
A couple years ago, one of the secondary schools in Port of Spain had their problem of indiscipline being a topical issue in the news. The police posted armed officers there full-time. After a PTA meeting to address the issue, one father said to the media that the children's misbehaviour in school was clearly the fault of the teachers.
Everyone is quick to blame the institutions in society. Somebody (else) always has to fix a/the problem. We're always ready to confess somebody else's sins -- quick to say who did this wrong or who failed to do this right and so on.
Is there a link between my trying to fix me and the level of crime in society?
If as many people that call upon the Gov't, Church and other social institutions to fix society, called upon individuals to take responsibility for their own, preventive health care, educational development, economic development, wealth creation and financial management, etc. would it make a difference?
There are opportunities in these areas that are available and under utilised.
Instead of complaining and asking 'who's fault is it?', should we be spending more time asking 'how can I help fix it?'?
Good topic. In speaking about crime and the reason for so much negativity in the country here is what I said in another thread within this Board:
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Those who think it is not so in my opinion are the ones who get so used to it that they see it as normal (a common concern is the lack of urgency) until it touches their behind and then it is terrible or important. |
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Is there a link between my trying to fix me and the level of crime in society? |
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Instead of complaining and asking 'who's fault is it?', should we be spending more time asking 'how can I help fix it?'? |
To me it's a matter of attitude. I truly believe that 'attitude affects altitude'. My personal level of success (as I measure it) is directly related to be attitude towards live. I'm I suggesting that I/we wear rose coloured glasses and ignore the negativity in society? Certainly not, but be focusing on it, especially when we're not actively and constructively trying to fix it, but I'm limiting my own potential for growth, development, success and happiness.
National Security affects us all. We complain about it all the time. But are also trying to fix it? We can complain about it (and more often than that we do), and we make uninformed and unqualified suggestions (as appears in the media daily) and feel that we're doing something.
The Keith Noel 136 committee had a march that they termed successful because they had 15,000 - 20,000 people turn up. The football match at the stadium has more people than that. Several carnival bands each has more people than that. Really, how constructive were they being? They get 112,000 signatures on a petition, now what? They give the Gov't a deadline to fix the crime problem by the end of 2005, or else what?
We talk, we gripe, we complain, we go online and talk, gripe and complain some more and think we're being constructive.
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The Keith Noel 136 committee had a march that they termed successful because they had 15,000 - 20,000 people turn up. The football match at the stadium has more people than that. Several carnival bands each has more people than that. Really, how constructive were they being? They get 112,000 signatures on a petition, now what? They give the Gov't a deadline to fix the crime problem by the end of 2005, or else what? We talk, we gripe, we complain, we go online and talk, gripe and complain some more and think we're being constructive |