CHRISTIAN SMACKING MANUAL
ROW OVER CHRISTIAN SMACKING MANUAL
A Christian group urging parents to smack their children, using discipline sessions lasting up to 15 minutes, has been accused of promoting what amounts to child abuse.
Ref. https://www.stuff.co.nz/hlc/1,,93498~3736210a10~,00.html
I won't start with the obvious insanity of all of this. So I will comment on three particular paragraphs that made me want to smack these over zealous child abusers.
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Parents are told that smacking can be a "10-to-15-minute process" and that if a child reacts angrily, such as by slamming doors or "pouting", they should be smacked again. |
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"Smacking is meant to drive the foolishness, the sinful manifestations, out of the child's personality so that they do not become permanent fixtures," it says. |
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Smacking is justified because children younger than age eight "do not think straight" and lack a developed sense of fair play and duty. |
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Deuteronomy 21 18"If any man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will (L)not obey his father or his mother, and when they chastise him, he will not even listen to them, 19then his father and mother shall seize him, and bring him out to the elders of his city at the gateway of his hometown. 20"They shall say to the elders of his city, 'This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey us, he is a glutton and a drunkard.' 21"(M)Then all the men of his city shall stone him to death; so (N)you shall remove the evil from your midst, and (O)all Israel will hear of it and fear. |
I myself was what you people called "smacked" as a child in order to be kept in line. If anything, it worked, and I would have ended up as a spoiled little brat if I wasn't. I frown upon the fact that they say that you should spank not smack the child for ten to fifteen minutes- but only because it brings back not so pleasant childhood memories. I support their doing this though, because it works and it should be done. Children who are spanked generally end up well-behaved, and children who are yelled at/grounded usually just end up as a froward, dissolute rebel.