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Body Naked Doctrine Mormon
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What is a 7 years old girl doing around nude people when she is nude herself? Aren't you concerned about the pedophiles all around us? Personally, as a mom I wouldn't allow any of my kids being naked around people. I understand how she was raised but the sickos out there have not. - LDS_Forever |
We don't send her the mall alone naked. She does not run around nude 24x7, although she would want to. (Some communities are entirely nude 24x7, children and adults. You might think they were sex sanctuaries or pedophile magnets. But they are not in the least.)
Remember, we are coming from very different spheres of truth so this may seem very wrong to you.
The few times we have taken her to nude beaches, we have been swimming as a family, together. Hawaii has some great secluded beaches! (I am sure this isn't taken well.) Funny enough, nude cultures are very protective of each other against predators. Porn looses all power for those who are familiar with the naked human body as a normal experience. For example Doctors, Nudists, etc. However it is largely us who choose the experience we want to have.
It is not the lack of clothing that creates the mystery, but presence of it. The porn industry feeds on illusion. That illusion cannot exist in the light of reality, only behind camera tricks, makeup, unnatural poses and clothing. Do a search on "LDS nudist" I am sure it will be an eye opener.
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What is a 7 years old girl doing around nude people when she is nude herself? Aren't you concerned about the pedophiles all around us? Personally, as a mom I wouldn't allow any of my kids being naked around people. I understand how she was raised but the sickos out there have not. - LDS_Forever |
We don't send her the mall alone naked. She does not run around nude 24x7, although she would want to. (Some communities are entirely nude 24x7, children and adults. You might think they were sex sanctuaries or pedophile magnets. But they are not in the least.)
Remember, we are coming from very different spheres of truth so this may seem very wrong to you.
The few times we have taken her to nude beaches, we have been swimming as a family, together. Hawaii has some great secluded beaches! (I am sure this isn't taken well.) Funny enough, nude cultures are very protective of each other against predators. Porn looses all power for those who are familiar with the naked human body as a normal experience. For example Doctors, Nudists, etc. However it is largely us who choose the experience we want to have.
It is not the lack of clothing that creates the mystery, but presence of it. The porn industry feeds on illusion. That illusion cannot exist in the light of reality, only behind camera tricks, makeup, unnatural poses and clothing. Do a search on "LDS nudist" I am sure it will be an eye opener.
Fear is not of God. But calculated empowerment is.
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If I had a daughter I would be much more careful, as there would come a point in her life that me walking around naked would just embarrass her and give her nightmares. |
Why embarrassed? Because your daughter was not raised the way my daughter was. My daughter is not embarrassed by her body or her parents bodies. Why nightmares? Do Doctors have nightmares? Do Coroners have nightmares? (Maybe they do about dead naked bodies chasing them, but not because they are naked, but because the are being chased by dead bodies.)
It is probably more cultural than anything, as my Grandma went to Africa on a Mission and said all the children walk around with little to nothing on in certain areas.
Yes it is very much cultural. Our feelings toward the naked body are largely learned by culture and our religious mindset. It is my opinion that we learn to recognize what culture has taught us, right or wrong and then decide whether or not we like the results of our cultural programming. In the case of nudity, my wife and I find that there are significant negative effects in the area of sexuality. Many of these effects can be over come via a healthy nude experience or two.
Years ago a neighbor kid came to our house when we just moved in. We had a 3.5 foot doll that was my wives as a child. It didn't have clothes on it and was in a box in the garage. The kids were going through the boxes looking for toys and this little boy grabbed the doll went to our front lawn and began to "play" hump it. We were talking to his adopted mother and she was embarrassed and chased him home swinging her arms and swearing at him. My wife and I looked at each other big eyed. It was clear he had been exposed to something and we didn't want our daughter to share his ideas. So we protected her from that. That little boy had associated nudity with sex. It would do him a world of good while he was still young to take him to a nude beach to sit and watch. He would see naked people playing and having fun and it would completely contradict his previous experience that nudity means sex. He has a particular cultural programming that I believe is not healthy.
For our daughter, we can either let the culture program her with whatever comes in contact with her accidentally or we can proactively show her the healthy aspects of all areas of life.
Fear is not of God. But calculated emppowerment is.
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If I had a daughter I would be much more careful, as there would come a point in her life that me walking around naked would just embarrass her and give her nightmares. |
Why, it is natural.
Oh, one more thought:
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Titus 1:15 - Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled. |
By cleaning out your mind and conscience such that it is pure, we can see all things as pure.
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Mark 7: 15. 15 There is nothing from without a man, that entering into him can defile him: but the things which come out of him, those are they that defile the man. |
This includes accidentally viewing porn. It is not the picture that defiles us. It is only an illusion that we either choose to believe or not. It is only what happens inside of us that can defile us.
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