quite agreed with Atiyana's "show some spontaneousness", I reckon it's really a proper attitude to a date.(especially dating for the first time )
what's more.I 'm in line with the Austrian Poet Rilke's view: to learn diligently before falling in love. to enlarge personal loniness so as to consummate one's instinct of love. you may feel tortured and suffered a lot during the process of creating love, yet the fruit of your learned love is fairly plentiful and full of the tribulation of fragrance. I really adore such prudent and sincere view of love and moved by it since then.