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it is your opinion that someone far more capable than the average person in metal capacity is considered not very smart if that person swears. |
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That really doesn't make sense. How someone talks is mostly influenced by their upbringing and the environment they were raised in. |
By the environment someone was raised in I do not mean having a relative the swears, I mean the overall environment. If you are brought up in an environment where most of the people you interact with swear, it becomes a common word and part of your regular vocabulary.
I just think that one's intelligence should be judged by what hey do with it rather than how they talk. Would you judge someone's intelligence by their accent? I would hope not, otherwise you will often find yourself unpleasantly surprised. One of the professors that swears, that you would not consider intelligent, worked with NASA's R&D department before becoming a professor. He is more able than any engineer I have ever met and well respected within the engineering community. You would consider him dumb for swearing?
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If you are brought up in an environment where most of the people you interact with swear, it becomes a common word and part of your regular vocabulary. |
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One of the professors that swears, that you would not consider intelligent, worked with NASA's R&D department before becoming a professor. He is more able than any engineer I have ever met and well respected within the engineering community. You would consider him dumb for swearing? |
I believe Dextral is also mixing up the difference between Wisdom and Intelligence (covered more extensively in another Thread) wherein intelligence indicates that you may know the meaning of many words and wisdom shows you know how to use them.
It is the same reason you do not swear (use degrading words) in court, in front of the judge, officer of the law, and so forth - intelligent or not - it is a wise person that knows that they have no place in an environment of justice or should I say respect! In my country you can be arrested for using such language, because you are considered to be degrading society / law. When such language is used around me I consider myself not respected by the one who uses it flippantly. It tells me something about them, because of their choice of words.
If such language is okay, then why do we not use them in front of children - it is because there is something about it that is unpleasant, and those who condone their use is the SAME as those who drink and smoke, but tell children not to do it, because it is not good for you - in my opinion.
By the way, the use of a professor as a reason to uphold swearing is such a weak argument, since professors condone many things that I do not agree with, and having a PhD does not make you a morale powerhouse.
The statement I meant to address by LDS_Forever addressed not morality, but intelligence. It doesn't overmuch matter whether the professor in question is a beacon of moral behavior. Simply put, this guy who you say isn't 'smart' has had a hand in putting things into space. But I'm going to agree with JB insofar as the word you're looking for is not 'smart', but 'wise'.
As for the possibility of being arrested in your country for cursing, JB, all I have to say to that is, God bless freedom of speech. It's important enough to us Americans that it was the first amendment on our Bill of Rights.
Dextral, you need to study US law better, and see if you can go into established places of law (court house) or speak that way to a police officer and even be rude let alone start to use swear words flippantly. Why not take it a notch further, and speak that way to your parents, your boss and so forth, but you won't will you, because there are consequences, consequences that dismisses your pointless rants about your professor.
@JB: Wanna bet? Used to work at FedEx. If you don't swear at your boss you're a saint, and I'm not (though I do want to be a Boondock Saint). (Google if you don't get the reference.) Additionally, the cops I know swear as much as I do, if not more. One cannot get arrested for swearing. Telling someone to 'go to
@LDS: Hmm...you and I are still on a different page here. In the US, 'smart' and 'intelligent' do typically mean the same thing. Wisdom relates to common sense, experience, so forth and so on. And really, neither of them have anything to do with social courtesy.
To illustrate this point, let's take an example: the average infantry NCO. Let's say you get an E-6 or an E-7. These guys have been there, done that. One NCO I knew kept the helmet he was wearing when he got shot in the head over in Iraq. Odd guy. On the average, these guys know just about anything you'll want to know about squad-level tactics, weapons, weapons usage - to the point of being able to list off the effective point range, area range, rapid and sustained cyclic rate of pretty much every weapon the US Army has in its inventory in their sleep - army regulations, so forth and so on. If it exists, these guys know about it. Common sense is one thing the average NCO has in abundance. These are the guys who really make things happen in the Army. Do you think they don't swear? Please, try to tell me you think that with a straight face. Not to mock you or anything, just trying to make a point here.