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Konquererz Introduction - Page 21

Glad to see you back, KofZ Wonderful to hear that you are feeling better, and quit that silly drinking idea! Nothing good ever came from alcohol (and that's almost 30 years of experience talking). Your life will be 100 times better without that nasty stuff. See you around the boards, friend!

Roz

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Konquererz, I am sorry to see your dad is not well, you are doing well by keeping him company. At the same time I am also happy for your promotion and it is good that they acknowledge your professionalism - keep it up.

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Kon, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. He is so blessed to have you as his son!. I think it was so sweet to go over to the hospital to watch Pink Panther movies!. I hope he gets well soon, I will give a prayer for him tonight. All the best.
LDS

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Just read your blog. I understand your anger and hurt. I affirm my support and best wishes to you through this troubling time, and even at such a great distance - let me know if there is anything I can do to give you a moment of comfort, even to chat a bit privately - your friend JB@Trinidad.

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I just read your blog with tears in my eyes. I can feel your pain and I know there is nothing I can say or do that will make things better but PLEASE let me know if you need to talk with someone. I am always in Yahoo Messenger, I have been through hard times myself (you know that) and I know that just chatting with someone sometimes help more than you think. I will keep your wife in my prayers and in our family prayers. I just want to tell you that you are a great guy and that even though you are angry at God for all these sufferings, it will come the day (not far away) where you will see the sunrise once again. Lots of Love.
LDS_forever

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I cant even read your responses with out having a tear. Once upon a time I was a christian, when I was, I dont think I ever met people who represented what a christian should be like, like you guys here. If god exists, then you all are definentely a blessing from above. Thank you, trying to deal with wifes medical problems, a tumor on her spine? I just about fell on the floor when I was reading the report from the MRI. I have three kids, they need her too, if the tumor grows, it will cause big problems, they would have to remove it, that would be very dangerous. I dont even know how to react to those facts.

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I have often thought about what I would do if I lost my wife. I think about my son's reaction, the things I would have to do, etc. and that was scary enough just imagining it, so I know the hyper state you may be in (because I would be really nervous), but do not let that make you falter nor cause you to turn to other 'means' as in the past, stay as a strong resolute husband that you are, only expressing positivity. Now, concerning the actual tumor, will operating on it now be less dangerous or are they waiting to see if it grows? I am guessing based on it's position on the spine that there also a risk of paralysis? Lastly, is this something caused by genetics, blood or eating?

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My dear friend, I can feel your pain and I also have a tear in my eye watching your suffering and not able to do anything about it!. I feel very strong about sharing this with you: I strongly believe that the key for a successful marriage is total unselfishness and you have proven this many times. In this situation you are right now, it is VITAL for your wife's welfare and the welfare of your kids that you remain as POSITIVE as possible. I know because I am in a difficult situation myself (not compared to yours of course) but the positivity of my husband helps me TREMENDOUSLY to deal with it, even though I know he does not feel to be "positive" he does it because that's what I need and even though the clouds are covering the sun right now, you need to remember the sun is right behind, it did not leave! so don't act as it is gone. Your kids are way too young to comprehend everything that is going on and your wife is maybe too depressed to feel positive in any way, therefore is up to you know to become the "mountain of strenght" for them, they need YOU and they need a guy who can comfort them, joke with them, cry with them, laugh with them. And I think that when you are engaged serving your own family in such difficult situation and you are busy trying to comfort them and be the support they need at this difficult time, you will receive the strenght you need to endure to the end.

I know God seem so far away but I STRONGLY suggest you to get on your knees and express ALL your pain to him and do not get up until you hear an answer from him, because He indeed answer our prayers.

I know it is so easy to say, but really YOU are the ONLY one at this time that can make something positive out of all this for your own welfare and for the welfare of your whole family. If you need to cry, do it!, if you need to shout, do it! but then come home and be the nicest guy you could possible be. Life is full of decisions we make on our daily basis, decide TODAY to be the fountain of strenght, love and support. Your wife and kids will be grateful eternally, I know it. They love you.
LDS_forever

Edited: LDS_forever on 23rd Jul, 2005 - 2:32pm