I believe that the ability to become that diamond is in every person. The choices we make dictate how our lives come out. The stress and strain of life seed only present opportunities for growth. As long as we view things from that window, we can make it through anything. The events in our life serve to create or destroy our foundation, depending all on how we handle it. It saddens me to see people who crumble under the strain of life, and brings me joy to see people like yourself grow stronger.
I really wanted to send a picture of my wife with me and the kids, but she only wanted a picture that she thought was perfect of her. She doesn't want a 'bad' picture of her to be the first one someone sees. So I had to send them without her. But I'm glad everyone gets to see my lovely kiddies! We have three now, but are willing to go for a fourth after my youngest is in school. We haven't been out of a diaper stage for six years now! My wife is seriously tired of potty training and diapers. Two down and one to go though!
I absolutely love kids! My wife has had three c-sections and complications with all of them. If we have anymore, it will be in a few years. We have always wanted 4 or 5 kids, so she may be up for at least one more in a couple years when all the kids are in school. Kids are the biggest blessing you can have in life.