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Funny since you choose to respond in detail in a topic you find is old.

As for types of sexual relations I'm of the opinion that once its consensual and not forced, coerced or abusive then whatever makes you happy.

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RedSonja - You GOT it!
So long as you are not hurting anyone else, and you and your partner(s) agree, go for it.
Whether it is a "sin" is only the judgment of others.

I'm sure jpatt would agree, too.

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But of course. I just find it pathetic that this sort of thing needs to be said in the 21st century - Man is capable of a lot of technological advances, but sometimes personal liberties and more "close-to-home" issues seem to take us SO long to get squared away.

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The reason why we get bogged down in sexual relations is that those who are homosexual are not content with just going about what they do.

Instead they are try to force it on us who do not approve of that life style. My value system is very clear on how to interact with those of any sexual background and has been laid out for thousands of years. We have to approve or agree with any other sexual relation another may chose nor do I have to listen to them tell us how we are wrong in our thoughts either. Their mistake as I do not have to approve their choices but neither will I forbid them of it. That is their choice just kindly shut the door like I do before making my babies. Sorry you can not, guess we all need to make our won choices and live with the after math of them good or bad.

Perhaps just perhaps it is their own guilty conscience of knowing they have chose a bad path and they do not know what to do about it beside harass the rest of us who are happy with our choices. I Have know people in many types of relationships and was glad to be friend with them and had some very deep conversations, but we all realized our personal sex life is that person and not to be lewdly displayed on our streets.

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Krakyn: sounds like you have "little problem" with gays.

First of all, they do not force their lifestyle on you or anyone. Don't worry, you're safe. They are not having sex in public (and if they are, call the cops - that's a crime).

Secondly, once they have come to terms with who they are, and have "come out", they don't feel guilty any more than you and I feel guilty about being hetero.

Third, they are not trying to tell us we are wrong to be straight. We were born that way.

All gays want is the same rights they perceive straights as having - freedom to be and express themselves. Straight people can hold hands in public (in America at least) and greet each other with a hug and a kiss, and they do that too. This can get over the top at times (like gay freedom parades), but you don't have to go watch! (And of course, straights have Spring Break and the outrageous behavior that goes with that.)

I know, to many it is disgusting to see gays interacting. You have a right to your feelings. I guess the solution is to ignore them, stay away from known "gay" areas, turn away when they hold hand, hug, etc.

The thing to remember is gays and lesbians are here to stay. They are 3-4% of the population and are more visible in America than anywhere else. There is more and more evidence they are born that way so we're just going to have to accept them (or at least tolerate them) as fellow human beings. Learn more about them and be compassionate. Not all of them are accepting or happy about their sexual orientation - it is a hard life for many. That's why many still do not "come out".

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This Topic seems to be straying... my original point was to focus on the following:

Note the parts in bold. In other words a person that is Catholic may want to label how their church considers the numbered points given. There are specific Threads about the Religious applications of being gay or from a cultural aspect and so forth, please take it up in those Threads.

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Well news breaker here mate this is a big issue in most of the large cities. The evening drops and so do their trousers in public places yes I have called the cops I also ask who do you think created glory holes?

Second no I do not have "issues" I just know my values and I am willing to keep them.

My value by my way is hate the wrong doing not the ones doing the wrong and be sure to say so when asked. Yes they stem from a funny little black book but that is a different thread feel free to look it up.

As I have stated in other Boards I do understand that if two or more people are sharing living costs and their lives then they desire to extend their health benefits and such with them. That is a legal issue not moral. But does it mean they should be allowed to dress lewdly and parade down the street grinding on each other say negative thing about my personal thoughts? NO! Nor would I do that to them nor have I.

I would hope so and if they do feel guilty go get help because maybe you are making a choice that dep down goes against your set of Moral rules. Yes these are set by society but going against society Morals is normal for me and I am glad and I do not nor will I ever feel bad about it.


You make me laugh with the statement of turn your eyes no I really find that funny becuase that I have no issue with. 40 guys walking around a park at night or 40 couples and making like bandits with no discretions to cover up or at least be in an area of low or no traffic flow well that is not right to me. Two getting caught up in a moment is very different then a group of people heading to an open public area nightly for the purpose of sexual relation right there and then.

I get the feeling you think I hate them, you are wrong there I just do not appreciate walking down the street and having with out done wrong being accused of it.

I have had many friends and I have a family member who I love and is currently in a gay relation soon to marry. I let them even sleep in my house I know you must be in shock. I think they care deeply for each other and hope they have a great life. Does not mean that I know what they are doing is right or wrong it does mean I accept them for who they are. It also does not stop me from hoping things can change.

I trust this is clear enough as I and not a hate full person.

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Krakyn - I did not mean to imply that you hate anyone. I don't see that in your posts. But many are nervous around gays and the gay issues and more flamboyant gay behavior.

It is unfortunate that there is some wild stuff happening in some park where you are, but that is often the result of suppression and the need to be secretive about sex between men. It used to be more common here to "pick up" guys in the park, but as my city got more open, the opportunity to meet and go out w/ other guys in a more open fashion means that the anonymous pick ups in the park and in mens' bathrooms are pretty rare now.
I hope that all the country can move in that direction sooner rather than later.

So, yes, live and let live as it appears you are trying to do. None of us should judge anyone's actions unless we know the whole story or have been there ourselves.