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I just feel so frustrated because I'm so burnt out on everything. It's not even that I can't think effectively, but I don't have the motivation to try to think on a deeper level, hence my silence around here. My writing has been a stand still for the past month. I'm hoping that if I just kind of take a hiatus on everything, then I'll be able to come back full swing on everything.

I am excited about the wedding. The only thing I am kind of iffy about is the weather. Being in Florida, there is absolutely no way of knowing what our weather will be like at that time. It could be thirty degrees out or eighty degrees out. But I guess we will see. Thank you for your thoughts, Farseer.

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Babyblues, I had to erase your last post in the Husband and Wife tips board since it clearly shows at the top, the following statement:

"From people who have lived / are living the life
NOTE: Do not participate here unless you are / were married"

Please make sure to read before posting. Thanks.

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The only reason I did is because I saw Bwren post in there a couple of times before he and Cherry had gotten married. Did you delete his posts too when he did that?

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The fact that Bwren's posts have not been deleted at that time because probably nobody noticed it, does not mean your post within that board is fine, since that board is only for people who have been or are married. Since I am a moderator and it happens to be here reading such post, I knew I had to erase it.

Please keep focus on what I am saying without getting so sensitive. I want to believe we are two adults who will understand what one is trying to say without becoming so defensive.

Edited: LDS_forever on 20th May, 2006 - 10:18pm

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I was not being overly senstitive. I believe that if a rule is going to be enforced for one person, then it needs to be enforced for all. Why is it that everytime I question something I get accused of being overly sensititve?

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You're reacting overly sensitive because your reply to my post instead of focusing on the mistake on your part, points out in fact the mistake of another. Your reaction is not only being overly sensitive but immature.

I agree about the reinforcement of the rules for ALL but again just because a moderator/s may have forgotten or not seen those posts at that time, it does not justify your post in that board at the present time.

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I was not pointing that out to get him in trouble. But, as my fiance just pointed out to me verbally, it's the fact that I saw a high standing member of the community do it and not be faulted for it. So, I assumed that if the post was acceptable from that member, then it would be okay if the post could apply to me, that it would be acceptable for me to reply.

If you find that immature, then that's your perogitive. Should the mods, then, not admit a mistake on their part for overlooking something of that sort? I was following an example. Yes, I can admit I was wrong, I never said I couldn't. But I was explaining my reason for doing what I did. How is that immature? You're misinterpreting my meaning of pointing out what I did.

You are also resorting to name calling, which I do not appreciate. As a moderator, should you not be an example? I believe that is why I lost my moderator position. I made one mistake. Yet, here you are coming into my thread calling me names and telling what I am being. You are not me. I do not mean this disrespectfully, but since you are not me, then you do not have a right to sit here and tell me that I am being overly sensitive and immature.

On top of that, if there is an issue with a member, shouldn't it be brought to them privately? By posting this publically, I could assume that you are trying to make me look bad in front of other people. But, since I am not you, I am not going to make assumptions about you that you have made about me.

Just because somebody disagrees with you does not make them overly sensitive, or necessarily put them in the wrong. I question your actions because of the reason I took the action I did. I asked a simple question, and then you took a personal hit against my character by calling me overly sensitive and immature. How professional.

On this note, I think I will ask that the money I have been creditted (might I add the money that I nearly broke my account to give to you two to help you, only for both of you to turn around and begin attacking me) be creditted to Bwren. He is an example of what a true moderator should be. He sets a good model. I have had enough of this. I had a disagreement with you in a post, I forgot about it and moved on. Your husband twisted my words later and evoked an arguement out of me. Since then, I have practically been black listed from this site. Being ignored by the two of you.

I hope you do not experience the kind of attitude and sarcasm I have seen the two of you give to members. You make peopel feel stupid for making simple mistakes, and last time I checked, we are all human. You make mistakes too, and hopefully there isn't somebody standing over your shoulder making you feel like crap everytime you do.

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I said your reaction was overlysensitive and immature. Read carefully. I never said you was. But again, I doubt that you will understand if you have not gotten the point until now.

Only one thing I have to say: If the community is causing you so much distress, you know what to do.