Polygamy: An Offer To A Single Woman

Polygamy Offer Single Woman - Mormon Doctrine Studies - Posted: 25th Jun, 2013 - 1:44am

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10th Apr, 2010 - 8:32pm / Post ID: #

Polygamy: An Offer To A Single Woman

I read this today and I thought it would be interesting to discus this angle of Plural Marriage. I do not know whether the story is true BUT is provided just as an example. Can the Church excommunicate someone on the grounds of Plural Marriage in this example given? (Whether the person is the one offering the help or the one receiving it).

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A few months ago I was speaking to a single woman, who had a few children and had been divorced for some time, about the Church's history regarding polygamy.  It was fairly routine until she began explaining some of her past experiences with people who had approached her regarding whether she wanted to practice Polygamy, but in a slightly different way.

When her children were smaller she had some good friends, a married couple, who had come to her with an offer of a polygamous marriage in the next life, if she wanted it.  They assured her that this would not involve any physical relationship in this life.  However, this couple would support her financially by paying her mortgage and offering other parental help, if she ever desired it.  Because this couple were good friends of this woman she was not offended but did feel a little uncomfortable and therefore politely turned them down. Source 9




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11th Apr, 2010 - 2:35pm / Post ID: #

Woman Single To Offer Polygamy

I can see someone having a long counseling session because of such an offer, but at the same time, I don't see how they could be excommunicated. The thing is, I think that is exactly what is needed to provide more stability for single mothers.



22nd Apr, 2010 - 7:25pm / Post ID: #

Polygamy: An Offer To A Single Woman Studies Doctrine Mormon

Well I believe this will largely depend on who you are and how much of a zealot of a Bishop you have in your Ward. The whole proposal sounds like a reason for Disfellowship at a minimum because it is seen as an acceptance of Plural Marriage, something that the very utterance to any Member is assumed to be sin these days let alone making a 'contract' with it.



21st Aug, 2010 - 6:22pm / Post ID: #

Woman Single To Offer Polygamy

From a single woman's perspective, long divorced and with no outside help from past husbands or children's fathers, this would have made me think twice. It made me cry to read it.

Candidly, I will tell you that I've observed couples at church and wondered whether or not "we" would be a good match. I have one friend whose husband calls me his "second wife" -- jokingly, of course, but I can tell she doesn't like it. (Not a good match, apparently.)

The doctrine of Plural Marriage was never rescinded, it simply stopped being practiced (as we've discussed repeatedly in the "Seven Women" thread). So, I don't see how anyone could be excommunicated over a promise of a future bond in the afterlife. Men can still be sealed to more than one woman in this life, provided that they are legally married to only one at a time.

I'm not saying I would have accepted an offer like that. But I certainly would have thought it over very carefully.



30th Sep, 2010 - 8:03pm / Post ID: #

Woman Single To Offer Polygamy

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7th Jul, 2012 - 7:35pm / Post ID: #

Polygamy: An Offer To A Single Woman

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From a single woman's perspective, long divorced and with no outside help from past husbands or children's fathers, this would have made me think twice. It made me cry to read it.

There is always a way and this might work well in theory from the beginning but in the end I don't think us mortals could truly live this, its just too complicated emotionally even if it seems to provide some temporal relief.



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24th Jun, 2013 - 5:54pm / Post ID: #

Polygamy Offer To Single Woman

Re Funmom, Wow, I can see the merits in these proposals. Makes a lot of sense to me. It will of course never be approved because you are moving this whole "Issue" Towards the slippery slope side.



25th Jun, 2013 - 1:44am / Post ID: #

Polygamy Offer To Single Woman Mormon Doctrine Studies

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When her children were smaller she had some good friends, a married couple, who had come to her with an offer of a polygamous marriage in the next life, if she wanted it. They assured her that this would not involve any physical relationship in this life. However, this couple would support her financially by paying her mortgage and offering other parental help, if she ever desired it. Because this couple were good friends of this woman she was not offended but did feel a little uncomfortable and therefore politely turned them down


I think this couple had some sort of agenda, I doubt they will pay for her mortgage, etc and not expect anything in return. The whole idea sounds very creepy and wrong!




 
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