Grouptt, I assume you are asking for some difference in eastern culture vs western culture with regards to everyday ettiquette. Here are some differences that I can think of:
Western - Finish all food to show compliments to host
Eastern - Leave some food on plate to show that host given more than enough
Western - Rude to make sounds while eating
Eastern - Polite to make some sounds like slurping.
Western - Weddings are traditionally white
Eastern - Funerals are traditionally white
Western - Outward expression of emotion is accepted
Eastern - Outward expression of emotion not readily accepted
I remember these from a paper I wrote some time ago. I'll see if I can dig them up again and add some more.
Update: Western - Eye contact is readily accepted
Eastern - Eye contact is used less frequently as sign of respect.
Edited: malexander on 28th Aug, 2004 - 1:02am
to add to your list there...
Western: no worries in letting your head shine to the rest of the world
Eastern: women must have head covered (well i guess this wouldn't be everywhere)
Western: considered polite to shake hands
Eastern: consider it an insult to shake hands, prefer hugs sometimes with 'kisses'
In many Western cultures shoes are worn practically everywhere.
In many Eastern cultures shoes are removed when indoors.
Some cultures, not sure specifically which, have unisex public restrooms.
In some cultures, Samoa comes quickly to mind, it is considered very rude for people to talk at different levels. If someone one wishes to speak with is sitting, go down to his/her eye level. If that person is standing, the other should stand as well.
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I don't know of all of the cultures you've mentioned, but I lived in Israel, if that's considered eastern.
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When I was working as a Nanny for a Jewish family, they were getting ready to go out, and were running late. The children's Grandpa was putting a shoe on the little boy, and out of instinct, I got the other shoe, and started to put it on. The Grandpa dropped the first shoe, and walked off.
It was explained later, that in Jewish custom, 2 people cannot dress a person at the same time, and that is only done when they are preparing a dead body!
I was really shocked that through not knowing, I had ended up insulting this family!