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Are You Stuck Up? - Page 2

Name: Krystal

Comments: I've been referred to being 'Stuck up' once by one of my friends. She talked behind my back(well she talks behind everyone's backs). She's known to judge people by their personality, like just because I'm shy, quiet, polite, never says no, and not too adventurous, she thinks I think that I'm a little better than everyone. She's the total opposite of me. Really, nobody likes her that much. I know that everyone else don't think of me as being the stuck up girl, but as the really generous and quiet girl. That made me felt better, but still, the girl is one of my closer friends (actually she says I'm her best friend). So whenever I hang out with her, I feel weird and always have to be careful of my actions, just so she won't criticize me. Anyhow, I think being stuck up really means that the person is aloof, act like other people unlike her don't fit to be their friend, and insensitive. I think my friend is stuck up, cause she criticizes everyone, even her closest friends (she doesn't have a lot) including me, just because we're not what she wants us to be, plus she's really mean and bossy. I don't usually say things like this about anyone at all (even the kind of conceited popular kids at my school). But she just makes me so mad and sad, to know that she's accusing me of being something I'm not, and that she's talking behind my back to my other close friends (although they don't agree with her at all, when I trust her so much.

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Name: Monica

Comments: In my opinion, I think that people who accuse someone of being stuck-up are either envious, jealous, or have an ego problem.

Are You Stuck Up? Health & Special Psychology

Name: Anne

Comments: I used to be considered stuck up by people who didn't know me very well. The truth was that I simple felt there was no need to be friends with people who I didn't like I was never mean or even rude to anyone. I simply choose not to hang out with them. We had a different lifestyle. I was not judging them for their life style. They should not have judged me for mine. Being stuck up is when you think you are better then others, not that you have difference of opinion.If I were to have said my life style is better then yours. Then I would have been stuck up .

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I have been described as stuck up for most of my career. It is probably because I am a perfectionist by nature, and most people do not meet my expectations when it comes to work, and there is always a more efficient way to do something. I also have a tendency to attract the company of my senior managers, and this is perceived by my co-workers as me being the manager's pet, so to speak. I barely associate with workers at my own level, and I am always invited to social events that are held (as opposed to co-workers). Many times I have been diagnosed with a superiority complex. The strange thing is that I dont mind being described as stuck up, as long as I provide excellent customer service, nobody else counts anyway aside from senior management

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Name: LadyK

Comments: My best friend of 17years is stuck up. I think I always knew this to be true of her but only recently am I completly NOT willing to cater to that seemingly inhert need of hers to have everyone around her kiss her [..]. Here;s the thing, we are both former models and BOTH turn heads wherever we go..EVERY DAY...all day. Guys hit on us, women sometimes too. I actually don;t like the attention and never really have. My therapist told me I have a need to please everyone around me to try and prove that I am nice, smart etc. And NOT just good looking....SHE on the other hand, expects everyone to follow her lead, give her what she wants when she wants it...truly kiss her butt. Some of the associates she hangs out with are cute women...by no means GORGEOUS like her...and she has stated how she enjoys the way they treat her...like shes a queen! Tonight I have had enough...I actually embraced a little "stuck up" and told her she was an silly. If she were in a car accident and her looks were taken away - NO ONE would be her friend because she isnt really a nice person inside. Shes seriously says OUT LOUD...I am the prettiest person in the world...seriously...she says this and means it...not like someone who is just self confident....she REALLY thinks this of herself. Its sad to me becuase I think this friendship is coming to a end. I can not be friends with someone who thinks they are better than everyone. I'm extremely beautiful (by societies standards)....but ask anyone that knows me and they shall say I am a very cool chic... That I think is the best way to be. Looks fade - a kind heart does not.

Are You Stuck Up?

Name: Shadae

Comments: Honestly, I have been referred to as being "stuck-up"..It kinda hurt my feelings because, there was this girl, that I have known for a while, who is very stuck-up and I use to hate that! I get called all kinds of names, black barbie, princess, model..but mostly, its stuck-up! I'm actually a very friendly person.