PEDIATRICIANS: MOST KIDS OUTGROW BEDWETTING
Most children who wet the bed will outgrow it, and treatment is necessary only if bedwetting is upsetting to the child, according to new guidelines from the Canadian Pediatric Society (CPS).
Ref. https://www.cnn.com/2005/HEALTH/conditions/...reut/index.html
I had read this on another site a good while back and thought that I should share it here.
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Some parents, in an effort to head off another episode, begin getting these kids up at night to go to the potty. The youngster is still sound asleep, but he or she is told to "go tinkle" or whatever. After this conditioning has been established, the child who needs to urinate at night dreams of being told to "go." Particularly when jostled or disturbed at night, the child can believe he or she is being ushered to the bathroom. |
It can be a difficult decision to make, when you know that your child isn't going to make having a full 'dry' night, and the other solution is 'lifting' a child whilst asleep,which isn't exactly ideal, especially if the report that Bwren has clippings of could be correct.
I have tried to let my 2 youngest sleep right through without toileting them, but they haven't quite made it yet, so have found the best solution for them is to toilet them at midnight, and they then sleep through until 7am, and are dry, and not distressed.
I've found that they get very distressed if they have an 'accident', especially when it's happened subconsciously to them, and they haven't been able to do anything to avoid it happening.
We have the same problem. Our middle child is still in pull-ups for the evening time because he just doesn't wake up. He has been potty trained for a while but still can't wake up at night. My oldest son had no problems what so ever, when he was trained, he was done. We just have to keep remembering that its not good for him either, and can be embarrassing, so we don't make a big deal out of it.
It's normal for children to have accidents when there are big changes in their lives - such as Felipe's new baby brother and how mommy and daddy have shifted their focus - or if they are stressed or sick. My daughter is 8 and had an accident about 6 months ago when she was ill. She was sleeping so deeply after having been up most of the night, she just didn't wake up when it was "time." It's very distressing for her and embarrassing, but we just don't make a big deal about it. Get cleaned up and carry on.