I hope everything works out for you Geenie. I want you to know that we will be thinking of you and praying that everything goes well with all that you do. I hope that your not off to long but if you are know that we will think of you and keep a place for you here. The seat may not be warm but it will be yours to use when you get back. Keep your head high and know that you are correct. Everything does happen for a reason and I know that you and your family will get through all of this. Hope to hear from you sooner rather than later.