the funny thing is that when we get to the true living ordinances, they are done without physical ordinances. Examples of this are Nephi receiving the Sealing power from the voice of God, (Hel. 10), being baptised by the Holy Ghost and not knowing it, (3Ne. 9:20), and how most people receive their calling & election without the laying on of hands.
Dbackers you are right that it is the motivation behind the action that counts. Because an evil person giving a gift or praying is still an evil person. And even if that evil person could over centuries learn to live the law perfectly, he is still an evil person, and will not be found in the celestial kingdom. That is why the path is straight and narrow and few there be that
find it.
the general idea is we do good because we are good, not for any other reason. This being the case, we cannot do good in hoping to become good, because we cannot server two masters. We first clean the inward vessel not focusing on our actions, then our actions will change as you said naturally and without effort. But if you focus on the actions, without first changing the heart, then we must deal with internal conflicts associated with serving two masters. By focusing on the outward actions we remain evil and attempt to save ourselves by obedience to the law.
This is why a person can change in an instant to a perfected state. The ONLY 1 thing we have to change is our heart. Once that 1 thing is changed, then we become good, and born of God. ("For behold, God hath said a man being evil cannot do that which is good:"(Moro. 7:6), and in the same manner, a man being good cannot do that which is evil. This is the lesson of Moro 7 & Matt. 7.
The key question we are asking in these last few posts is: What are the fruits of the righteous? You are saying, as most people believe, the fruits are actions and works. I am saying they are not. By their fruits ye shall know them. If the fruits were actions, then I
would be able to tell the difference between an evil man who is praying, and a righteous man praying, but I can't. both are praying, works says both are good, but they aren't says Moroni 7. But I can tell the difference between the two by their fruit. So, what is the fruit? How do we recognize it? In the answer we will
find a key to perfection. The fruits are....
Disclaimer: Everything I say, (as well as any other person), is to be considered the philosophies of men mingled with scripture, or in other words, OPINION unless you personally receive a witness from the Holy Ghost, in which case it is scripture, it is the will of the Lord, the mind of the Lord, the word of the Lord, the voice of the Lord, and the power of God unto salvation. D&C 68:4