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Is Something Wrong With Me?

Is Something Wrong With Me?

Is Something Wrong With Me if I like to look at people's butt as they walk by?

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Why would you do that? I have seen men doing this and I find it disgusting but why would a woman do it? Maybe you should ask yourself why you do it rather than if there is something wrong with you for doing it.

Is Something Wrong With Me? Health & Special Psychology

No there is nothing wrong with you. Its just attraction-fun even! You find the behind atractive, you have a look; its two seconds of your life and then you move on. If you're subtle about it then who are you hurting? It's not a crime or anything.

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But that just it, the fact that most people can notice someone staring at their behinds or someone's else behind it is a sure sign it is not done in a "subtle" way, add to that if you live in Trinidad (Caribbean) where I live then besides the sickening staring at your behind you will get sexual talk as you pass by.

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Well I agree there is a difference between admiration and sleaziness and I don't condone making another person feel uncomfortable. Most of the men I know wouldn't mind being "checked out" but some of my female friends appreciate it only if they feel like they are being admired and not pawed at or threatened.

I think its a bit of a tight-rope walk. We are all attracted to people and I think we instinctively react to a pretty face or a sexy body and we take pleasure in appreciating the beauty of it. However, we do also need to ensure we are not leering at the object of our fascination because it just ain't cool and can appear threatening.

Having said all that, how can people meet new partners if no one looks at each other?

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I think is great to admire another person's beauty but people need to be careful to not fall in vulgarity or as you stated, make the person feel uncomfortable. Nothing wrong with looking at all BUT personally (When I was single) I was not looking in men's butts in order to meet that special someone.

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A fair point LDS, a cute butt (however appealing) does not a long lasting relationship make!

Is Wrong Me Psychology Special & Health

People's butts as in men and women? If so then oh yeah something is definitely wrong with you!