QUOTE (CatwalkKilla @ 1-May 08, 4:07 PM) |
If you show a woman a diamond she is likely to give whatever answer will get her the rock. |
QUOTE (Krusten @ 8-Jul 08, 3:10 PM) |
Or we can say that the type of women they are proposing to is low . |
It's not suprising that men would make such generalizations, because I find the majority of women are superficial and false. There are very few women that I know that wouldn't like a giant rock on their finger just to say they have a giant rock on their finger. I can count those few women on one hand.
Not to say that because a woman wants an expensive ring, she doesn't love the man who is proposing, but women generally like expensive jewelry.
I know one guy who his wife proposed and had a set of rings at the ready. They had their birth stones in them it was kinda cool. They had these slim bands welded (bonded) to the wedding bands after.
Ladies after 50 years the engagement ring does wear out so be prepared for that. My mom had her diamond set into the wedding ring on her 30 th anniversary. The gold from the engagement ring was used to thicken the wedding band.
This is the reason I went with platinum. It is a much harder metal and it does not wear out like gold has the tendency to.
I like the ring I picked out and made to my specs. I think my wife is very happy with it. Now I have to start shopping around for a 10 year band to add to her set.
Back to the original question, I do not think it has to be a ring. That is just tradition. If you and your loved one want to exchange something else that is important to you, I think that would be sweet, original, and very romantic. I know several women that were proposed to and accepted with the token of a ring pop. Some chose to go ring shopping together after this, and others just chose not to exchange rings. Symbolically, a ring represents a love that never ends. I never cared if I received an engagement ring, however, dbackers did propose with a ring. I am not very materialistic. I enjoy the simple things in life. I do wish that we had gone to a pawn shop and bought a good quality ring, but not spent so much money. I am a bargain shopper.