Niger Love Ritual
Did you know in the country called, 'Niger' men can have as many wives as they wish and often obtain them through a 'legal' form of stealing? Basically, the man paints his face, makes a lot of eye movements and attracts the married woman. If the woman is married then he arranges to take her by night. The man goes out by night and asks her to come with him, if they escape and get to his home without her husband seeing then he is allowed to 'keep' her as his wife.
That sounds like how things operate here just that it's not part of the law. Americans are always operating outside the bounds of marriage and stealing a wife or husband from another is second nature. Just look at the television show "Cheaters".