What do you think about the ethical and legal aspect of surrogacy in the country? Is it something you would consider? The Newsday featured an article about it:
I am a very old fashioned girl and I will never condone surrogacy. I believe that it is very unethical for a woman to be "renting" out her womb, for the purpose of bringing a life to this world, in exchange for money. If you really think about it, it is like another form of prostitution. I do admire women who choose to adopt unwanted orphans all around the world. But to search for someone to "carry a child" for them, just makes me feel very queasy. You have to consider the purpose of a woman being able to give birth to a child; is it because she wishes to experience the trials and tribulations of being a parent, or to hand over a human life to complete strangers, whom she knows nothing about, except how wealthy they are? What kind of woman would do this? What about the emotional aspect of surrogacy? These days, surrogate mothers are challenging the adoptive parents, by taking them to court, in a desperate bid, to fight for the human life that they carried. Sometimes, parents who are unable to have children of their own, are becoming more aware of the fact that the surrogate mother may have a change of heart after giving birth. Therefore, they instruct their attorneys to devise an airtight contract, which indicates that the surrogate mother, will be waiving her rights as a parent, after she signs this contract. Some contracts actually state that the surrogate mother will not be allowed to hold the baby after giving birth. Sounds very harsh but I suppose this is to prevent the surrogate mother from changing her mind.
I read the article from Newsday and I consider this "Suzy" character to be a cold and heartless woman. I cannot believe that she is introducing this questionable trade in our country. Our laws are so archaic and I suspect that we do not have any laws preventing surrogacy; therefore, unfortunately, this lady may have the right to continue her "trade" in our shores. I strongly believe that surrogacy is very unethical and I sincerely hope the government quickly discusses this matter and implement new legislation to outlaw surrogacy!
Edited: Geenie on 3rd Mar, 2008 - 8:24pm
Geenie:
Geenie, but you are not answering the question. Since you brought up the issue of money and even compared it with prostitution, how do you feel particularly about the scenario I put? Mother is not stranger and no money involved.
Well I thought I did LDS. I consider it to be immoral for a mother to offer her womb as a solution to her daughter's problems. How would the daughter explain to her child, how she was born? Very ticklish situation if you ask me. Hence the reason, why I suggested adoption as a solution to this problem.
Edited: Geenie on 4th Mar, 2008 - 5:02pm
Geenie:
Maybe a foolish question but how is the woman getting the sperm? Including $60,000 they have to pay for medical insertion too?