How Does The Bishop Decide Who Gets Welfare?
Have you ever wondered what is the 'terms' for the Bishop giving out Welfare support to a Member(s)? Let's put a scenario: Suppose in your Ward there are a number of immigrant families that you believe are supported on welfare help by the Church both financially for utilities and with commodities like food, etc. You never asked before for help but after you lose your job you approach the Bishop who says he has no funds to help you. Do you see that as 'unfair'?
I would think it is unfair. However, I don't think this scenerio would happen. I think that welfare may be based on the member's activity level and if they are tithe payers. There are definitely individuals who will come to the church for a hand-out, because they know they can get it there....I have seen that first hand. In my opinion if it is a member of the ward family, especially if they are active, should never be turned down. If it is someone who just pops up out of the blue, their help should be limited. Good thing I will never be a bishop....that's hard stuff.
Actually, that scenario is very close to reality. Here in Utah, apparently the leaders have been told not to help with rent or house payments. At the same time, transients and indigents are given almost unlimited food support, as well as other forms of financial support.
I know of a woman who was recently divorced, and needed help to keep her home while she looked for a job. No chance. It is now obvious that it doesn't matter if a person is being forced onto the streets or into trash housing.
I would imagine the welfare system would be different throughout the ward. NightHawk, I'm here in Utah as well, and we have the Bishops Store-Houses, which are wonderful, but not found throughout the world. When I lived in Florida and my mother was the RS President, I remember they made food orders and went to the stores.
When my husband was laid-off for a year, we went to the church for help. Of course they didn't pay for our $1400 mortgage, but they did help with utilities, and we were allowed to go to the bishops store-house, between that help and my job and unemployment, we made it! It was several months in before we needed help. It was humiliating to me, but I was thankful. We were very active full tithe paying members.
I do remember hearing from one of my friends in the neighborhood, who was active, maybe not tithe payers, but they had fallen into the same circumstance a few years earlier, I was astounded to hear that the bishop would not let them go to the Bishops store-house for food....that never made sense to me. They had six children.
I live here in Utah as well and I know both full tithe payers and non-full tithe payers get church help so I don't think it has nothing to do with the level of activity but more about the kind of training/experience the Bishop may have. They're good people but sometimes they don't do everything according to the books but they mean well.
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Comments: I have been a baptized Mormon my whole life. I let go of the rod on my journey for many years. Till one day two young men came to my door. I let them in, my family listened and not far down the road my wife was baptized. Sound good? We went to church(I did mostly) trying to get my family to church here in Berkshire county. Well my wife and I were having trying time while heating fuel was 450 a gallon. I turned to the church for help I got "make sure you pay your tithing" I gotta say WOW thanks. Wife and I were offered to see a church counselor a good hour and a half away at 450 a gallon for gas and no able to make ends meet. Well you figure that one out. I soon took ANOTHER second job which didn't allow me to get to church due to my schedule. See I had to feed my family and pay bills. After a while the wife and I separated. She was having a hard time making ends meet on her own. She turned to the church that she was now a member of. She asked for food help and got "your un-willing to come to church so we can't help" the last she heard was over 6 months ago and the bishop was suppose to go over and meet with her. That was 6 months ago. See here in Berkshire county the church has clicks. If your not in their click you arent crap. Well needless to say I will not ever attend a Mormon church here in the Berkshires ever again. We weren't looking for a hand out, but a hand up. Now the wife and I are getting a divorce and the house fell through. I don't blame you all for my mis-furtune, but for your lack of help even with the most simple things as food for my wife. The real sad thing is those two young men that got me to hold on to the rod for that tree of life.. Their work was in vein.. Oh if you ever need my help I will be there for you free of charge and with no conditions
Hi Barney, welcome to the forum. I am sorry to hear of your misfortunes in life and with your dealings with some of your local leaders. I cannot comment much because I do not know the details of your particular situation, having said keep in mind leaders are men who commit mistakes like the rest of us. Again, sorry for what you went through. I hope things are much better for you and your family.