My husband and I have separated. He cheated (Countless times - using one of those web-sites for hook ups!) I left him. Now, I am finding it difficult to get him to leave the house so my son and I can have some kind of normalcy. Any suggestions? He tells me that I am not blameless as I am to blame for his wondering eye (?), so its slowly turning messy. Someone who I thought I knew, who I love, is turning into a monster...
I am so sorry to read this Jchampers, have you tried getting an arbitrator or counselor? If you are separated does it mean you are willing to try again or you are definitely heading towards divorce? If so, the separation should be a legal document.
Jchampers, I am very sorry to hear about what you are going through. Is it your house, his house or both?.
I believe if you are not stuck in a situation that you have no choice but to stay legally married for your child's sake (Whatever the circumstances might be that attaches you to this marriage), then you should try to get legal assistance so you can know what are your options and you can then make an informed decision.