I can see this. Staying in a long term relationship with someone needs to be carefully considered. You have to look closely at a person for possible deal breakers. When a person has some very redeeming qualities the negative aspects have to looked at as well. That minor issue at the time might become a deal breaker of a sort down the road. I examine anything negative and weigh it against the things I like about the person. I also think about that minor issue and whether it might not be so minor 5 years down the road.
I believe that a person can change in some ways if you let them know how you feel. That didn't work in my last relationship so maybe I'm just an idealist. I also expect any boyfriend to evaluate me in the same way. I would want us both to be happy for the long term.
Edited: Kyrroeth on 14th Jul, 2016 - 2:15pm