Its easy to judge this but no should mean no! Everyone looks at the victim but what about the predator, the selfish monster that chose to use his power to control. Unless you were there you don't know. This poor woman's life was changed forever.
I think her putting this into a book can maybe open some eyes. It is not the girls fault at all and people need to stop blaming the women. It is all about control and a guys need to take what he wants through force. These type of guys are not good people and need to be punished.