
Smacking Lips While Eating
No matter how many times we ask our son to stop smacking his lips he does it anyway. When we bring him up on it he says, "Sorry" and then after a few seconds continues to do it. Any parents with Autistic children have any tips to help him do this naturally?
Krakyn, we tried. As a matter of fact, we do it all the time. He just does not see it or forgets very quickly (within seconds). Felipe LOVES food so he gets very excited and thinks lunch and dinner is some sort of "race" hence he does not take his time to chew his food properly, sit properly, wipe his mouth, etc (table manners). He is 9 years old and if someone sees him eating they would think he has no manners whatsoever.
I kinda had that feeling. My oldest was a slow one on this same issue due to the same reason food infatuation.
I know it is due to the Autistic issues that you fight so hard with this. Would taping it and playing it back to him help? I have doubts due to the lack of recall as soon as he sees food.
Could you present the food to him differently to help him slow down? Sorry I am thinking of puppies and how you put water in the dish so they can not just gulp the food down. Could smaller pieces and less on the plate at a time help at all?
On top of Autism he battles with ADHD so doing anything with the process of take your time is like asking him to climb Mt. Everest. Maybe we are battling something that has little chance of changing. I say that because since birth there are just certain things that he refuses to grasp no matter how many times you tell him.
I don't think he refuses to grasp it as much as he is unable to do so. We're speaking about a child dealing with several neurological challenges. Following instructions, "not listening" are ALL part of the spectrum and the way the brain is wired. Hopefully, through repetition it will change sometime in the future.
I hate to say it but I think you guys are right. I spoke so several friends with children who are challenged in these types of capacities and they said if he has not stopped by now it is unlikely he will. I now for myself that would be a challenge for dinner time.