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Quasar Introduction - Page 17

It must be a behavior problem. Honestly, it is so ingrained now that I don't notice it most of the time. No wonder I have so much experience with Conflict huh? I am still looking to pick fights.

I just need to redirect it a little. This actually is part of my inner self though, just misused I think.

I had a guy at church one time tell me to leave the Bar at the Bar. That is rolling around in my head lately. Didn't think much of it at the time. I don't go to bars anymore, but I think I know what he is talking about now.

Agreed

I don't like neutral. I can keep my mouth shut.

All of the philosophy and religion that I have studied recently and the hardest part is applying it. I am doing some service work next week that usually helps out with some of the more selfish behavior.

I need to figure a lot of this out before I get married.


Well, thanks everyone. I guess... Fighting urge to be sarcastic.

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Neutral in writing. You can be disagreeable without sarcasm, that is what I mean by being neutral. Some people have a knack for using words to bring emotion without actually insulting the person, just learn to do it. I actually like your disagreeing or attacking points of Discussion as I said before, you just need to tune your torch. If you know anything about welding - an open flame does no good, it has to be adjusted for the right color - blue usually.

Look over the Feedback Board and 'Art of Discussion' Thread (not necessarily to respond, just to read) to learn the art. Incidentally, this reminds me of my son. He is unaware of his words and actions, and we were told by the psychologist long ago that he would have to be taught how to react to certain events, rather than assume he will pick it up, so even today we still have to remind him when it is OK to laugh, make a joke, cry and so forth.

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Quasar you will be just fine. Remember it gets easier with time and we know stubbing your toes on the path is normal.

It is a piece a friend shared with me two years ago and my potty mouth has signifigantly cleaned up and my sarcasm. Feels are not wrong it is what we do with them that counts. James 3 deals with taming the tongue.

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User unable to communicate in a mature environment.

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I normally do not give any kind of 'explanation' as to why Members are deleted, but I thought I would do so with this one both as an example and to show how many opportunities we give people to improve online communication.

As with all Users that like to cause relative trouble this former Member just could not contain himself. He crossed the line by sending me his profanity by Email when I was simply trying to help him post in the right place. It is no wonder you say you are always meeting trouble with others, I hope you get the help you need to succeed in life and get along with people without degrading yourself.

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I got a dollar that says he is back again soon under a new nic!

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Well, that would not be surprising as it has happened many times before, so you may as well send me that dollar . Interestingly enough people's writing styles give them away most of the time, especially those with a strong personality, so if he does return you will easily detect it.

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He was quite prolific in his posting...just not seeing him be able to turn it off in a heartbeat. Yeah, I have seen quite a few people try the new nic trick and it works for a few days and then the old writing style creeps in.