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Shave your head. Don't bathe for a few weaks, gain 200lbs. Get a really large dog. An Ak-47 around the neck probably would help. That should do it. |
A line my wife used in her days was to ask the man what was the last book you read? It sent most running. Lucky for me I was not an Illiterate. We actually just got together because I thought she was neat as a person then I learned how neat.
Take heart there are lots of good guys out there. Most you never notice due to the lack of flash and bling.
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Men everywhere thinks in sex. |
May I though this thought out there is it bad that a man is sexually attracted to a woman? Or is it how he pursues the chase and what the thought or drive behind the chase really is.
If there was no sexual interest man would perhaps never seek a woman for various reasons mostly due to the fact they do no even come close to thinking the same on issues in life.
Sorry I deviated from my goal there. A man first is attracted afar to a woman why looks smell body language. (sorry ladies and visa versa)
Given this the man will continue and try to meet her if he is honorable it is to get to know her. The if that in turn is positive a relation is pursued with the thought of long term commitment. Unfortunately many are less then honorable and live on flesh desire alone and seek physical pleasure alone. I think it is safe to say more an more are following this path. It is not the sexual attraction that is the issue but the mind that receives the signal is corrupt.
I do not think it is Trinidad alone but every where in general. I listen to Jamaican ladies complain on this greatly as well. I also listen to the girls at the bus stop lust after the men and complain the men do not stay once the great gift is given.
The mass media teaches commitment is not required any more and we are free to seek our pleasure from any we can seduce and it is our right for either men or women. Fight this and the men will change.
Sexual attraction is necessary for the species to live but it needs to be governed with integrity of a clean understanding mind..
Hermosa, buenas tardes amiga! Como estas? Yeah I just wanted to use a little bit of my rusty Spanish.
I read your thread and I hate to be the one to say it but you are doomed! Trini men love young attractive women and they go beserk for Venezuelan women. I am very certain that you are very attractive and unfortunately, men here will lust, pant and drool. May I suggest to be patient. The right "friends" will come along when you least expect it.
Name: Jimmy
Comments: that's easy Hermosa, there plenty of Spanish people here, once you come across, I've realized that they really do bond together, look out for each other, really admirable, and there very welcoming people, you'll fit right in, and guys, well when your in the Spanish community, you not gonna have to worry about guys, cause Spanish guys they dress different, act different, look different, you'll be right at home.