
If it isnt in your heart to give it up then you wont. Signing a document or even time in jail wont make you stop. If it were that simple then buds I knew would not have lost their wife, children and jobs for the sake of a drink.
Yes you have to have it in you to change otherwise you will never stop. Sometimes you may get a big wake up call that makes you want to change the way you drink. That wake up call can be a very life changing event.
I have to agree that many need to get on board but that old saying comes to mind. You can lead a horse to water but you can not make them drink. Many people can tell you that you should stop of cut back. They will all fall on deaf ears until that person is ready to listen.