I guess, what is a answer to one, it not a answer to another, that is given, each one reality is not the same. I say that too, as I deal with many others like myself in person and online, who are Empaths, Sensitives, Intuitives and etc from all walks of life and moral persuasion.
The problem may be one of words or concepts or Spirit or course, all things are Spiritual, and the more Spiritual a thing is, the more Spirit needs to be involved to understand it. I find that Scriptures are the basics of Beginning to understand things, the rest is understood and learned by Spirit. That is like Section 89 in the D&C, the Word of Wisdom. It was made for the weakest of Saints to follow, which mostly deals with the don't, the do are not so obvious, they are seen with much need and prayer.
I came across a verse in my reading of the Book of Mormon again, Mosiah 24:14-17 I see again and again in Scripture that God often cleanses his people, they go trough a refining fire, and with that endure well, rise up to add light and strength to each other and to others.
I will say, one wonders why God would need a witness, but seems like God runs things legally, somewhat like a Court of Law. And it would seem that for God to act on his own, might seem like a conflict of interest to me. But it may be this way, so everything is considered fair and impartial. But in reality, we judge ourselves, we go where we feel welcome, we gravitate to where we feel comfortable, like gases in the air which rise to where they are at the level of thier own kind. So maybe, Birds of Feather do flock together even Spiritually.
God can in reality or theoretically do what he wants. But then God does many things in way that do not always make sense to us. God could make us all be good, he could prevented someone from doing this or that.
But what does does, seem to be predicated on helping us learn to be like him. And that seems to move him to treat us in ways, that forces us to help him and participate in the program. We learn to be like God, by acting in his name on Earth, and I guess here after too.
God is our Father, everything he does is to benefit us, his children.
Again you are missing the point of this Thread. There is nothing to be learned or understood by children / babies who are at a tender stage of development. They can hardly form words or understand colors let alone acknowledge the complexity of heinous acts against them.
To attempt to answer those questions is folly. I do see your point JB, after all we have details about not drinking or using tobacco and those are very specific so something like this should have some specifics to it too.
To answer this question, maybe folly, but here it goes with one last try, even if someone may have used this scripture before.
What happens is not a punishment or a sacrifice.
I came across this image today and it immediately reminded me of this Thread. It means more when you 'see' it. Children should not suffer like this... Anywhere... Anytime... For any reason.
Mormons - When Children Are Raped, Abused & Killed (Hover)