Vampire Women
Do Vampire Women have special powers that Vampire Men do not have or vice versa?
I don't think so. I consider, all Vampires possess same powers but one. What women vampires differ from men vampires is, they (women vampires) have an extra power of fascinating humans. They do have a voluptuous body which helps them to fascinate and mislead humans. This way, they easily catch their preys.
To answer the original question it all depends on which region of the world you're in. Some traditions make the female vampire to be very powerful while other legends say the females are just brides of the one dominant vampire who and he has control over them sort of how a lion leads his pride.
I guess a woman vampire could have power because we are seen as innocent. A man is more likely to trust a woman to not physically harm him than the other way around. I don't think most men would mind even if they knew a woman was dangerous.