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...his older brother made enough noise for both I guess. |
I know it may seem that all is lost at times with a child as gifted as Felipe seems to be. My middle son who is now 16 was like him in many ways. He has ADHD and while he was around 8 - 12 I was not sure I was going to be sane anymore. Thus my favorite quote, "I was perfectly normal before I had kids". I am sure that as time goes on he will start to get better control over himself. One of the methods that worked well with us was bringing his actions to his attention and asking him to control himself. Over time he was more and more able to focus on his school and social activities. He still gets very disappointed if things do not go his way or we can not do what we had planned but he is getting along so much better. Hang in there there is hope and you and your family is in our prayers.
I can understand that. Sometimes society can have a big damper on getting things under control. Even cause a lot of set backs. But the hanging in there and slowly making progress makes it all worth it.
Having two other sons so far to help you and give you a break can help you maintain a lot of sanity. I know I would not worry about the not speaking as I am sure he will get his two cents in more and more as he get older.