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Lover or Fighter? - Page 4

Well people pretty much respect me. I'm the "nice" boy. People around me will pretty much come to my defense. You don't mess with me or you mess with the whole community. In a ways I guess it's good. It show I have friends, yet in another way, people don't think I can stand up for myself. Well I guess the ups must come with the downs as well. As for my girl-woman...pretty much the same applied to her when she lived her. But I'm sure I can whip out a can of whoop ***. My brothers are pretty good fighters. There had to something like that in the gene pool to slip into my DNA...some sort of ressesive fighting gene? Oh well...

Fighter Lover

For the most part, I'm kinda shy around people I don't know just yet. If I know the person is messing with me, I'm a fighter. I'm fairly cautious about overly-friendly people that I don't know. Talk is cheap, and lies are expensive.

Lover or Fighter? Health & Special Psychology

I would go home and quickly throw all of his clothes in garbage bags, including the dirty ones. Put the garbage bags in the car go back to where he is in his passionate embrace and whack him and his *sweety* with the bags, and say to her ~ there you go, he is all yours! Then quickly get back home and change all of the locks on the doors. If only I had seen him in action I wouldn't have stayed married to him for all the years I did.

In most confrontations I am passive. I would wait until the opportunity presented itself to *get even*. That was before I got active in Church. Now, I don't get even. I pray a LOT to not be vindictive, revengeful, and to be forgiving. If I am threated with bodily harm, OR if a child or a loved one is threatened then I will lash out to protect. And I do not fight fair. I kick, bite, scream, hit with the largest thing I can pick up and swing and I don't stop until the attacker is really, really still!

Page 4 Fighter Lover

I think we all have inside of us a lover and a fighter at the same time, depending the circumstances when rises above the other. If we were just lovers all the time then we will be in danger of being in an abusive relationship because we will not be able to see the signs.

Fighter Lover

AGene, I don't think there is any such thing as a fair fight anyway. What is fair about you trying to hurt me? If someone is trying to hurt me, I will make sure to hurt them more, regardless of the method.

Seriously though, I understand about the struggle to not become angry, bitter or vindictive. When someone does something awful to us, we really need to work at not becoming hardened as a result of it.

Lover or Fighter?

Tena, it is not always easy, specially if the person tries to remind you constantly that they don't like you I suppose that just shutting down your ears and mind in those situations, yes ignore, is the best method or solution.

Lover Fighter - Page 4

I'm a lover It is not that I am more compassionate than others, it's just that I tend to understand others better and know exactly what they feel, even if it's a forum (So beware!). When someone is hurt or happy - especially my brother, I have developed a really strong connection with him - I can almost feel their feelings. Maybe you can define compassionate that way but either way, I'm a lover

Lover Fighter Psychology Special & Health - Page 4

Definitely a lover - Scorpio men are hot blooded and i am but i'm not aggressive at all. I really like cooking for my lady (whenever i have one that is) and settling down to cuddle and watch a DVD or something.

Used to be a fighter until i realized my Marriage was over. Everything was perfect but found letters etc and could not handle it at all. Got really agrressive and drank alot.

Being single really teaches u to appreciate what women do for men. Wares don't wash themselves, Houses do not sweep themselves and clothes.... oh my Lawd those things need to be washed folded and ironed (The absolute worst in my opinion)

So now i'm mellowed out, relaxed, learned to fend for myself. And i have the best Batchy pad a guy can ask for. No need for aggression bring the love.

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