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This answer comes very easily for me. I am a straight out fighter. Whether toward males or females in any way. I have gotten in so many fist fights over the years. I almost got shot once. Lately, because of my lifestyle change I've calmed myself down and learned how to control my actions. I still hold that dominate trait but I'll hear the other person out before decking them.
If you ever take one of those personality profilers, you'll understand what DISC stands for. If you don't I'll explain. 'D' stands for dominance, aggressiveness, leadership and goal oriented. I stands for friendly and fun-loving, a people person with little goals. 'S' stands for a more laid back person, very little goals, but comfortable where they are. 'C' is a perfectionist who prefers to work alone. I ended up with almost entirely 'D' and one point 'C'. Therefore making me a DC person. Which explains my dominate, fighter type personality.
I am a fighter, having grown up in the Bronx, you tend to learn how to fight, and even kill if you must. Now since my parents moved to get me away from the violence I end up here in Hew Hampshire after the first 14 years of my life were spent there.
Hmm, lover or fighter, thats tricky, lover or fighter. One time this guy smacked my sister across the face, so I choked him until he stopped struggling. No, he wasn't dead, stop looking at me like that., but he never hit my sister again. But this other time I walked in on my girlfriend with 4 other guys. It took self-control I didn't know I had to keep from getting my gun and handling the matter then and there. So I guess I'm a fighter, but I'm not stupid about it.
I rather think I'm one of those lukewarms. I am absolutely dependable where close friendships are concerned and when someone wrongs one of those aforementioned friends, I'm as rabid as a pit bull -- But, on a day-to-day basis I think I'm more the actress. I'm an, "I'm great, how are you?!" sort of girls. I'm certainly not a lover -- I have a habit of disliking people. As much as I'm labeled outgoing, I'm not a people-person. I've been told I'm much too honest and upfront and not nearly tactful or diplomatic enough. I suppose I'm a nice kind of evil?
I would say I am lover, I absolutely hate confrontation, and will go the whole distance to avoid it.
However, anyone who threatens my family would have to beware, I would turn into a 'raging bull'