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Lover or Fighter? - Page 2

Eyh, questions that come with extreme answers are usually very tricky.  Besides, JB, your "lover" definition sounds more like a peace lover, instead of a spouse lover?  Ha ha.  

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For instance, you are in a situation where you see your spouse kissing another person in a passionate way, what do you do?

I thought a lover would cry, bury everything and save the relationship with spouse without mentioning anything about it but a fighter will sooner or later, bring this up and deal with the anger.  

I used to be passive agressive, meaning I wouldn't do anything directly related to what I'm not happy about because I want to "look good" but I would retaliate and whine and punish my spouse when I'm not happy with him.

But in that given situation, hey, that's too much! I want to say I'll grab a camera, take a picture, walk to them, saying, "Good job! Well done, you couple just made a court perfect picture for me!"  But in the real life situation, I would probably go home, give it a good cry, make plans for me and my children and then tell him I'm leaving him.

According to your definition, I'm a lover then?

Fighter Lover

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Eyh, questions that come with extreme answers are usually very tricky

Of course that is why it is here.

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Besides, JB, your "lover" definition sounds more like a peace lover, instead of a spouse lover?

Of course, the idea here is you do not want everyone automatically choosing 'lover' (which everyone is most likely to do), so I had to make it somehow 'fair' for fighters.

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According to your definition, I'm a lover then?

LOL, yes, but please, do not take it seriously. The idea behind posting here is provocation of thoughts and fun not so much psychoanalysis of each individual person otherwise everyone would really have to write essays

Lover or Fighter? Health & Special Psychology

Eh-hey, cool
I do tend to be very serious with each topic, don't I?  :D
Interesting topic~

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If I caught my husband kissing another woman I will throw the first thing I have on his head, go home, pack all my stuff, take my son to a far away country and get a divorce. : I'm a Lover or a Fighter? : LOL

Fighter Lover

LDS you are definately a fighter.  I could have told you that before you posted here, based upon other posts of yours.  Now, I don't think that is a bad thing, so don't be upset with me.  I am a fighter too.  It is we fighters in the world who get things done, while the lovers are all home on their couches crying over spilt milk :spit:

Lover or Fighter?

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LDS you are definately a fighter.  I could have told you that before you posted here, based upon other posts of yours.

LOL thanks, I take it as a compliment ;D

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Now, I don't think that is a bad thing, so don't be upset with me.  I am a fighter too.  It is we fighters in the world who get things done, while the lovers are all home on their couches crying over spilt milk

No, I'm not upset with you! all the opposite I'm glad my posts reflect my personality

Lover Fighter - Page 2

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If I caught my husband kissing another woman...

"Such a loving wife, such a daughter of Zion...", this is what I usually say in answer to that. My LDS is a fighter all the way. Don't mess!

Lover Fighter Psychology Special & Health - Page 2

I supose if a fight comes to my door i would fight. I have a "pent up strength" i supose-I talk Shotokan so im taught to fight but have never gotten into a fight. So im kind of cocky. Not a great thing but ok. I usually try to solve things verbally first before going into...other..methods..so yes. I am a lover