ReneeTpaUSA
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Choice Gay Gay Born People Are
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1. Should gays be legally married? |
Sure they should. They should also be allowed the same benefits such as spousal insurance coverage, etc.
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2. Should they be allowed to adopt? |
Gay couples are already adopting. Who is to say that they could not be equal if not better parents than some straight couple? Anyone willing to adopt a child has more love to give than someone who would not.
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3. What about their sexual influence on their kid? |
They would have just as many issues to deal with as a child who is brought up in a home where the father beats the mother or either parent gets jacked up everyday on drugs. Sure, they may get teased in school, sure, they will wonder why Little Johnny has a mother and a father and they only have 2 mothers (or 2 fathers). But what's the difference when mother and father get divorced and they grow up having two sets of parents - how confusing must that be for a child?
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4. What about men who act like women or women that like men - is it normal? |
This I believe is genetic, or at least having a greater percentage of male hormones or female hormones has been discussed recently in the news as influencing homosexuality. Who defines normal anyway these days?
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5. Should it be mentioned on forms and applications if it would make others feel uncomfortable? |
I think this should be treated as religion or race would be on an application. Who's business is it and does the fact that someone being gay negates their ability to receive a benefit or disqualify from the same job if they are equally or better educated in that particular field?
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6. If a guy is gay would you feel comfortable changing in the same room? |
If a female was gay, and I had to change in the room in front of them, I would not exercise any other action than if I was in a room full of straight women. Humans are curious by nature, but as long as you are respectful, what's the big deal?
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7. Should gays be in the military? |
If someone that is gay is willing to fight for my right for freedom... let him/her do it. I know plenty of straight men who would never sign up for the
military and would never go to war, and if a gay man or woman is game, please, they will make up for the few that are too scared to step up to the plate. Having said that, I understand that many men are terrified of the unknown, and would feel uncomfortable thinking a gay man was checking them out. My advice is to get over it.
Now, to the original question, In my opinion, I believe it is a little of both, I think you may be genetically predisposed to certain characteristics, but I also believe you can become emotionally attached to someone of the same sex, after all, they feel love too, it's not just a sick perversion meant to fire up the homophobic individuals of the world.