I will take a loving wife.
Why?
First off it really is a rare thing to see two people have a lasting happy and successful relationship these days.
There are many millionaires who have more than 5 million dollars and have not been able to obtain a wife that they are happy with.
When I think of the word wife I visualize a successful relationship filled with love. I see a loving mom. I see a happy husband and father. I see children happy to have such great parents. I see a man and woman living to be happy together.
I spent 2 years in Honduras as a missionary for the LDS church. I taught "poor" couples and "rich" couples.
In both cases they put their family's needs first and that is why they were willing to listen to us.
IMO there is great worth in a companion and joy in working on having a successful relationship.
IMO there is great opportunity for "peace" in a loving family relationship.
I will take a "wife".
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i'd rather have the peace of mind than have the 5 million, and in result it would cause me headache because don't know what to do with the money.... |
Well, I am terribly curious about the significance of the amount 5 million.
How did everyone arrive at that sum? Not that I disagree, mind you, and I have to put my vote there.
Give me the money, because money makes everything you want to do possible.
Abstracts like peace of mind may only be obtained by your own attitude and are not contingent on externals.
A spouse? Man, that is the hardest of all.
To find a mate you can live with for any length of time, actually relate to and communicate with is probably the hardest thing we all do.
There is no formula I know of for that except pure, blind luck.
If you find someone like that you are like 'the old blind hawk that stumbled over a crippled chicken'.
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A spouse? Man, that is the hardest of all. To find a mate you can live with for any length of time, actually relate to and communicate with is probably the hardest thing we all do. |
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[I can not seem to have peace of mind. Â My mind is troubled by the things I have seen and heard since I was a child. |