Farseer, that reminded me of another...
Do not use your fork (that you just put in your mouth) to take out condiments or food from the table where everyone else has to share.
Some of these are common sense really.
One less known...
Do not start to eat until the host gestures to start, even if you are seated at the table by him/her.
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Another one that is very old-fashioned, but a lot of (U.S.) men are wearing baseball caps now so ... Unless you are dining outside, remove your hat before you sit at the table! |
LDS I don't understand why you slide the salt instead of just picking up the salt and pepper shakers and handing them to whomever asked for them?
Don't add seasoning to your food until you have tasted it first. I hate that, when my guests start dumping on the salt, pepper, or hot sauce before they even taste the food.
Edited: AGene on 28th Nov, 2003 - 4:25am
I love watching people trying to behave properly at the table.
It's more polite to have dishes of food on the table so that your guests may serve themselves plus they can take as much or as little as they want.
There's nothing worse than being given to much food & feeling as though you have to eat everything on your plate because you don't want to offend anyone.
Did you know that when a woman leaves the table for any reason, it's polite for all the men to stand up (I could have so much fun with this!).
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You're not supposed to have a set of bowls of food on the table in the first place, that's why it would be easier to slide the salt instead of picking it up. |
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LDS I don't understand why you slide the salt instead of just picking up the salt and pepper shakers and handing them to whomever asked for them? |
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They must do things differently where you are because just about every place I go for dinner, their are bowls of food on the table to be passed to help yourself. |
Well, it is true that whenever a movie shows a wealthy family eating that the food is not in bowls on the table, but served by someone else, so I guess in our ultimate goal this is what we should strive for! Of course, in my house, you are lucky if I don't just leave the food in the pans on the stove and tell you to help yourself !