I haven't figured out quotes yet so I'll answer your questions in order.
I think the guy is a mechanic. I have no idea where he lives. The only thing I know is that her friend from Trinidad has friends and family there (somewhere).
My daughter is white from USA and my daughter-in-law is Hispanic. My daughter is the one moving.
Her friend went to school in Trinidad, and arrived here after her high school in Trinidad and has been here ever since then. Both are in their mid thirties.
Tinydancer, the patriotic side of me says that she should come and give it a try but she is taking a huge gamble. Let's look at the possible scenarios:
(1) She comes here and the business is successful. Businesses here can be quite successful especially if it is a novel concept that Trinidadians buy into. Restaurants also make money.
On the flip side the children may give up a very American-styled education unless they go to the International School of Port-of-Spain. The education system here is geared towards integrating with CARICOM. I'm not sure how well a Trinidadian schooling prepares the student for employment in America or how well the children would re-integrate into American society if they so choose.
(2) She gets robbed (highly possible) but the business is successful - as per the above albeit with a disenchanted view of Trinidad.
(3) The business flops but she is safe - time wasted.
(4) The business flops but she is attacked - both waste of time AND she would suffer psychological damage.
Well, that's probably the school she attended, not necessarily where she lives (here isn't like in the USA where you go to the school closer to your home).
We have a thread about St. James located here: Source 8
I'm also curious at where this guy lives. Is your daughter willing to join the forum so she can read the information too?
As a foreigner myself, it took me long years to adapt to Trinidad and I still do in many aspects.
My daughter is very quiet about the move. Yet, very cantankerous if we ask questions she isn't willing to answer or has no answer. It is doubtful that she would consider hearing the truth or at least exploring the pros and cons like most people would do when contemplating this move or any move. Since her friend comes from Trinidad she is the expert, knows it all, case closed. The least she should do is have an open mind. My husband and I have expressed to her many of the fears and problems (that members of this blog have) that might arrive when taking such risks in a very culturally different country. She behaves as if we do not know what we are talking about.
Believe me, I am very concerned about this guy and the welfare of my daughter and her children as well as her friend's intentions. It might take me a while but I'll try to get his area of POS where he lives.
You do not have to answer this question, but why are you living in Trinidad. I live in a University town and I teach many foreign children every year. Some parents are mostly involved with University/Hospital and usually stay here, my other population of foreign children are immigrants whose parents want opportunities and a better life. I will be retiring in June. I am surprised to hear that not all teachers have at least bachelor degrees in Trinidad.