Guys do care, we are just stupid. I think the biggest problem that we run into is that girls never come straight out with stuff. They always hint and put out what they view as "obvious signals". Well no matter how obvious they are, we are more than likely to miss them. Just come right out and say somthing when needed. Then we can react to the situation and show you that we really do care.
Guys can be confusing but so can girls. as different as guys and girls are it amazes me how anyone can actually talk and understand each other long enough to get married. I also heard a person say guys mostly talk in sound effects while girls can carry on 3 conversations at once while eves droping on 2 others.