I would ask: "Are you proud of me?" Sounds kind of self-centered, but think about it. I always try to live my life so that my earthly father is proud of me. It pleases me a great deal to know that he is proud of me and I do my best to keep that approval from him. I want to live my life in such a way as to make my Heavenly Father proud of me too. I can't do a lot in a global sense to make the big issues go away, but if I always live my life in such a manner as to make Heavenly Father proud then I am probably living up to my potential and doing what it is He wants me to do.