[quote]...if my offender hasn't repented and isn't sorry, do I still need to forgive them?[/quote]
I believe the following scriptures will answer your questions, especially the last.
Matthew
6:14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will
also forgive you: 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses,
neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
18:21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother
sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? 18:22 Jesus
saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until
seventy times seven.
18:35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye
from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.
Mark
11:26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in
heaven forgive your trespasses.
"Ye ought to forgive one another; for he that forgiveth not his brother his trespasses standeth condemned before the Lord; for there remaineth in him the greater sin. I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men." (D.C. 64:9-10)
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I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men." (D.C. 64:9-10)[/quote]
That part of the scripture is exactly what I needed to be reminded of. So, that tells me that I need to forgive someone even if they are still doing whatever it is that caused me grief or pain. So, while I may need time to work it out in my mind, etc., and resolve the issue enough to allow the Holy Ghost to work on me, I still must forgive then regardless of what they are doing and regardless of whether or not they gain forgiveness of the Savior. Thank you.
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We are told in D&C 64:10 to forgive all men:
[quote]" I the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men." D&C 64:10[/quote], then in Matthew to love our enemies: [quote] " But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you." Matt. 5:44[/quote]
This was part of my lesson in Primary a year ago. I really must have gotten the message across because one of the 9 year old boys asked me if we are to forgive Satan and to love him?
This really stumped me, and the Primary Presidency.
After sharing time, I went to the Branch Presidency over Primary and asked him. He said, no because Satan is not a man.
I was not satisfied with this answer, but I also let it slide, and in reading through the various topics on this board, I am reminded once again that I have not answered this little boy.
What is your answer to this 9 year old boy? Are we to forgive and to love Satan?
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Well, I don't think we should love Satan. Forgive maybe though. In the sense that forgive means to let go of bitterness and anger. No reason to be angry at Satan, what he does really is a necessary part of the plan. However, I think your Branch President is right. Satan is not a man, so I don't think it really applies. I think we are to forgive other people, Satan is not a person.
" I would like to make it clear that forgiveness of sins should not be confused with tolerating evil. In fact, in the Joseph Smith Translation, the Lord said, "Judge righteous judgment." The Savior asks us to forsake and combat evil in all its forms, and although we must forgive a neighbor who injures us, we should still work constructively to prevent that injury from being repeated. A woman who is abused should not seek revenge, but neither should she feel that she cannot take steps to prevent further abuse. A businessperson treated unfairly in a transaction should not hate the person who was dishonest but could take appropriate steps to remedy the wrong. Forgiveness does not require us to accept or tolerate evil. It does not require us to ignore the wrong that we see in the world around us or in our own lives. But as we fight against sin, we must not allow hatred or anger to control our thoughts or actions." (Elder David E. Sorensen Of the Presidency of the Seventy).
https://library.lds.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Mag...20to%20love.htm
In answer to whether we should love and forgive Satan or not, I believe that we as members of the church, are to despise all evil.
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And Jesus answered and said unto him, Get thee behind me, Satan: for it is written, Thou shalt aworship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou bserve. LUKE 4:8 |
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Ye that love the LORD, hate evil: he preserveth the souls of his saints; he delivereth them out of the hand of the wicked. PSALM 97:10 |
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GREG - If we're supposed to love our enimies,are we not to love satan?...I found these scriptures myself...can you add to it?(psalms 97:10, Amos 15:15, 1 John 3:23, 1 John2:15 (John 3:16)(Matthew 5:44-46) JOEL - It probably is impossible for anyone to think that any good Christian could love Satan; but as you point out we have been told to love everyone, including our enemies(Matt 5:44), Satan being the worst enemy of all. When Christ spoke these words his purpose was to help mortals living on this earth to be able to get a long with other mortals. This was the main purpose for many of his teachings. He hardly intended it to be applied to Satan and his fallen angels. And I don't think it is necessary for us to profess any love for Satan as a requirement for entrance into heaven. However those scriptures you quote(Psalms 97:10, Amos 5:15) only tell us that we should hate evil. There are many mortals on this earth who could be labeled as evil, but we are told that we should hate the sin and love the sinner. So is it possible for us to hate the evil that Satan does but love him because he once was our spiritual brother? According to LDS doctrine Jesus, Satan and all of God's spirit children were brothers and sisters in the pre-earth life. It seems logical to believe that Heavenly Father loved all His spirit children even the one who would eventually become Satan. According to Joseph F. Smith: "Naturally, the expression that our Eternal Father loves Satan needs some qualification. There is no doubt that there was a deep sorrow and weeping when Lucifer rebelled. From all that we have received pertaining to the pre-existence, we learn that there was a time when Lucifer held great authority and was known as the light bearer. No doubt at that time he was well received and greatly honored. His great sin lay in the fact that he rebelled against giving to every soul the great gift of free agency. Naturally, there was weeping in heaven when the rebellion of Lucifer was introduced, and our Eternal Father wept, just as a mortal father who loves righteousness would weep over a rebellious son." I think rather than worring about who we should and should not love, we should just keep the spirit of love within our hearts at all times for everyone at the same time avoiding all forms of evil. |