Amonhi
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Plural Marriage: In That Day Seven Women Shall...
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"Some have suggested that the first husbands in these marriages were generally disaffected from Mormonism or were non-Mormon and that Smith married the women to offer them salvation." |
This would be silly as they could be sealed to their own husbands and then take their sealing elsewhere"¦
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Polyandrous marriage - The law was that the 2 men and the woman must both agree, showing that agency is still the governing principle. |
What would have happened if they had said "No"?
There is a very little know event we are seeing here. This was actually not a success for Joseph Smith. It is the most difficult transition that very few people are able to make. Those who don't make the transition are supported, and will be exalted, but deal with stuff like this, until they finally transition"¦ Having your Calling and Election made sure is required before having such a trial as this. The Elizabeth Smart kidnapper was also at this transition point and failed. I will explain more when I finish reading the entire thread...
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book 'In Sacred Loneliness - Farms review - Actually they said the book is mild and even with a friendly tone but they totally disagree on his views about Plural Marriage. But in my opinion they should review the facts rather than the guy personal feelings about it. Also I didn't like the fact that when someone doesn't agree with a Church doctrine or struggles with it, immediately is being called an 'apostate' or 'anti-mormon'. |
I agree. The reason for doing this is because it is far easier to destroy a teaching by focusing on the flaws of the messenger than on a message. Just as People focused on Joseph Smith and not the teachings. Look at the teachings, not the messenger. This is a tactic used by people who are not interested in truth, but who are interested in supporting their own beliefs. By this alone, you can know that any evidence presented by FARMS in biased and cannot be trusted to be an honest consideration of facts and willingness to change to be inline with truth.
Discussing Brigham Young Discourse, all quotes below:
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 "There are sins that men commit for which they cannot receive forgiveness in this world, or in that which is to come, "¦" |
- Only 1 sin cannot be forgiven in this world or the next. The Unpardonable sin against the Holy Ghost.
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 "It is true that the blood of the Son of God was shed for sins through the fall and those committed by men, yet men can commit sins which it can never remit. As it was in ancient days, so it is in our day;...There are sins that can be atoned for...by the blood of the man. |
- He is referring to those sins which under the law of Moses required the blood of that man/woman be shed. One such sin was adultery. Christ showed that the woman caught in the act of adultery who was about to be stoned should not be. If her salvation was dependant on her blood being spilt, then Christ would have had compassion on her and helped save her by killing her. This was the mentality of his day, and the mentality of Brigham Young at this time. Brigham young did not understand a few things. He was trying to make sense of things himself, just as we all do. I will go into this later as well as it relates to my comment above.
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 "Now for my proposition; it is more particularly for my sisters, as it is frequently happening that women say they are unhappy. Men will say, 'My wife, though a most excellent woman, has not seen a happy day since I took my second wife;' 'No, not a happy day for a year,' says one; and another has not seen a happy day for five years. It is said that women are tied down and abused: that they are misused and have not the liberty they Ought to have; that many of them are wading through a perfect flood of tears, because of the conduct of some men, together with their own folly.   "¦And my wives have got to do one of two things; either round up their shoulders to endure the afflictions of this world, and live their religion, or they may leave, for I will not have them about me. I will go into heaven alone, rather than have scratching and fighting around me. I will set all at liberty. 'What, first wife too?' Yes, I will liberate you all."   'But,' says one, 'I want to have my paradise now.' And says another, 'I did think I should be in paradise if I was sealed to brother Brigham, and I thought I should be happy when I became his wife, or brother Heber's. I loved you so much, that I thought I was going to have a heaven right off, right here on the spot.' |
- Not happy, wonder why. Aren't they following the plan of happiness which is eternal? If they are not happy here, in this life being in a polygamist relationship, will they magically become happy in the eternal world? What will change? Will their husband somehow magically have more time for them? Will they be given some secret knowledge that will make it all right? Yes? If they will be given the knowledge later, then they are not being persuaded now. If they are not being persuaded now, why then were they marrying into such situations?
Because their eternal happiness was at stake and could be saved by a short period of misery. Obey now or go to eternal hell. What would you do if you were under such duress? Were they persuaded to live as a second or third wife? Yes, as much as I would persuade someone to give me their money with a gun in my hand. Except that my bullet is an eternal bullet that will damage their state of happiness for all eternity. That is the persuasion used in this article. Its called the BIG the stick. And when a leader puts God's name on it, wow, that stick packs quite the punch!
There is no greater bondage then the prison created in the mind by the fear of endless and eternal damnation!
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"If my wife had borne me all the children that she ever would bare, the celestial law would teach me to take young women that would have children. ... "This is the reason why the doctrine of plurality of wives was revealed, that the noble spirits which are waiting for tabernacles might be brought forth. ... |
- There you have it, the reason for plural marriage according to Brigham young, as President of the Church.
If there were enough men to women, would plural marriage still be needed according to this definition? No because a man could love the woman during the 9 months of pregnancy rather than spending that time producing more children with other women...
Speaking of the children, he said, the women can have them! What about them being his posterity? Was he willing to give them up eternally or just for this life? Whether in this life or the next, it seems he was willing to give them up easily? It is difficult to have a relationship with that many children. Which then brings the question of bring children to homes where the Father is not able to father them and assist in raising them. So are these many spirits being brought into a home that is quality? A home where once a month your father visited your mother and her children for a day or two? How does this help those great and Noble spirits have the best God can give? (I am a relative of Brigham young, but in the west, who isn't?)
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"True there is a curse upon the woman that is not upon the man, namely, that 'her whole affections shall be towards her husband,' and what is the next? 'He shall rule over you.'Â "But how is it now? Your desire is to your husband, but you strive to rule over him, whereas the man should rule over you. |
- These are states of the natural man and the curses of that natural state. When we become changed from the natural man which is an enemy of God, the men shall have their affections toward their women, and neither the man nor the woman shall rule the other, but they will be totally equal and united in persuaded agreement in all things.
Rather off topic, but... I read your response above afterposting this. I will not make any further posts until I complete the thread.. |
Edited: Amonhi on 8th Sep, 2008 - 6:26am