[quote]I have been working in Child Protection and Family Crisis now for over 9 years. [/quote]
Hi James, wow, I suppose you know a lot about abuse because of your work. Maybe you can give us more insights about this subject. Thanks.
Abuse is a terrible thing that should not have to be tolerated by anyone, it certainly is a sensitive topic but it is good to see it discussed as it seems that there are alot of misconceptions as to what actually constitutes abuse. The first post of this thread is quite clear as to what is considered as abuse and all of these forms of abuse are totally inappropriate and no-one should have to be a victim of any of any form of abuse at all.
[quote]there are alot of misconceptions as to what actually constitutes abuse. [/quote]
Yes, and often it is among thoise who were themselves abused so they see it as normal. For instance in my country hitting children is considered 'normal' so much so that they want to make it lawful for a teacher to hit a student (it already happens).
I can tell you my story. I am a convert to the church, joining when I was 17. I suffered terrible abuse growing up by every member of my family (mom, dad, and 2 brothers) and I am also adopted (at 3 days old). Emotional abuse, physical abuse, torture, sexual abuse, neglect. It messed me up really badly. Through the grace and miracles of God I have had my shredded heart healed and my ill mind made whole again. I'm sorry if these things are shocking to hear, and I don't mean to say anything that the rules don't permit. My point is that abuse can be overcome, even horrible abuse occuring for over 15 years. Learning more and more about my Saviour's love and His Atonement has helped tremendously, as well as several years of counseling and a Christlike husband. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints literally saved my life. J.B., I really appreciate your informative talk. As more converts join the church (not that abuse doesn't occur in the church) we need to be sensitive and watchful for those that need our help in getting out of and overcoming abuse in its many forms. Thanks for letting me share.