OldSouth, interesting points. I do think we over-focus on the attire issue. As long as the clothes that are being worn are clean and modest then I do not see the issue at all. Unfortunately, many times we are like the Pharisees, cleaning the vessel from the outside but the inside is very dirty.
Name: Dan
Comments: I do not like the fact that white shirts are becoming more and more requested almost to the point of being required. I also think that to judge someone because they have facial hair or not is questionable. I have a mustache and I will not wear a white shirt. I believe that God does not want his children to wear uniforms and all look alike. I can understand white shirts for those passing the sacrament but beyond that no thank you.
Hello. This is an interesting topic. Thanks for all of your comments....got me to thinking about a talk I read a few months ago by Boyd K. Packer called "The unwritten order of things." President Packer talks about how there are things in the church that happen that are not in the handbook , but are part of the order of the Church, although unwritten. I like how he explains why some of these things prepare the mind to understand a higher order and how it can help us to prepare to lead in the Church. I totally disagree, respectfully, that we wear white shirts and ties to be seen of men. I mean, that is not why I wear them. I just searched for the title in Google followed by the LDS. like this The unwritten order of things LDS
I thought it was a good talk. Besides that, I can think of much harder things that could be required of us.
Name: Kookie
Comments: Would we be having this discussion if the Lord was physically in the church with us? Would He turn someone away because of the color of their shirt or because they have facial hair? I think members are making mountains out of molehills.
As I read the comments that have been posted, I was a little troubled but not surprised by the condescending, arrogant tone some express in their writing. They have no idea what is going on in the spiritual life or temporal life of those brethren who are attending church. There are plenty of unfaithful members who wear the best of clothes to church, and sometimes they dress so well to "cover" their sins and "satisfy" their pride.
I would rather receive a blessing from a worthy priesthood holder who came to church wearing board shorts and a T-shirt than a hypocrite dressed in a designer suit with a white shirt and conservative tie.
It's not a commandment to wear a white shirt to church. It's not even disrespectful to wear a nice dress shirt that's, say, brown or blue. It's just a little out of the ordinary, that's all.
Does anyone who is condemning non-white shirts actually know why white shirts are specifically encouraged for those blessing/passing the sacrament and those presiding?
It's so they are not a distraction to their role; their position is one of leadership (even the priests) to the congregation. It's the actions they perform that's important, and to stand out in any way from the "norm"--which changes over time--would distract the congregation from the purpose of Sacrament Meeting.
Right now the social norm in North America is a white shirt and a conservative tie. In the past it was different; in the future it will be different.
Sure, we should show respect and reverence in our dress. Last week I was in Hawaii and I wore flip flops to church because I didn't have my Echo's. My sister chided me on the way saying that Elder Oaks had recently talked against flip flops. However, I was pleased to find the island saints there wore sandals to church so I fit in with the norms. What is too casual here may be normal and appropriate somewhere else.
Either way, it's a personal issue. It's way more distracting to others when they give their kids toys to play with during Sacrament or Cheerios to crunch on--or worse, when the spoiled kids don't have those stuff and they weep and wail and gnash their teeth.
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As I read the comments that have been posted, I was a little troubled but not surprised by the condescending, arrogant tone some express in their writing. |
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so what's the problem? |