Post Date: 6th Jan, 2009 - 1:05am / Post ID:
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Page 7 Ties Shirt White Wear Priesthood Mormon
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1. It gives a false sense of worthiness to wear a "purity" shirt |
To say that the symbolism which is found in wearing white is a "false sense of worthiness" negates the need to wear white in the Temples. Wearing white is not to show others your worthiness, but rather it is to remind yourself what you are doing is an important task or ordinance. As with all symbolism, if person who wears the white shirt is not worthy, then he has committed a sin that has nothing to do with the symbol. The symbol is there for the edification of the person taking part in that symbol, not to show worthiness.
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2. It sets a requirement some cannot meet financially (and there are tens of millions in this category in the US) |
Dressing in a white shirt is no more expensive then dressing in any color shirt. I buy most of my white shirts at thrift stores for a few bucks and they work as well as any.
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3. It leads to "groupthink" where identity is lost and the group is seen as perfect when they are not. (See reason #1.) In short, it leads to a more cult-like mentality. |
Missionaries do not lose their identity when they wear similar outfits. I can attest to this based on my own experience. You see almost every type of personality on a mission, even ones that you clash with, but we (at least in my mission) all wore similar outfits (And missionaries are far from perfect). By requiring young men to do the same has no affect on the groupthink of the Aaronic Priesthood young men, except that it may help in unite the boys in one cause and purpose.
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4. It leads to a congregation-sized clique where outsiders do not feel welcome |
Are people that thin skinned that they are offended by some people wearing white shirts? Come on. The requirement usually only applies to those passing the sacrament and does not apply to those taking the Sacrament (regardless if you are wearing a tie and white shirt or not one may still take the sacrament)
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5. It thereby hampers church growth |
I do not believe this is a major hamper to Church Growth. Gossip, backbiting maybe. The strict moral code and standards of the Church (no smoking,drinking, purity in thought and deed) definitely.
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6. Have you been to a modern church other than our own recently? The more relaxed the dress code, the more people come because they feel accepted and welcome. I'm not saying we should relax to the point of shorts and a t-shirt, but that we should relax to the point of color versus white. |
People should feel accepted and welcomed because they are brothers and sisters in Christ, not because of a standard that a particular ward or branch has taken on concerning white shirts and ties. Anyway, why should we use a "Modern Church" as an example on how to gain converts? Conversion should come through the Holy Spirit and any other way leads to weak converts and misplaced loyalties.
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7. It is a form of social vanity (We're better than you because we wear white shirts to church). |
I do not believe most people who advocate wearing a white shirt and tie believe that it makes one better then someone else. It is a symbol, but it should not be a symbol of superiority. It should be, rather, a symbol of reverence and simplicity in dress. If the person who is wearing the white shirt and tie feels superior, then he needs to repent of that attitude, as well as the young man who looks down on one who does wear the shirt and tie because he believes he is superior because he has expressed his individuality.
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8. Making it a social requirement negates the whole meaning of "dressing your best" for the Lord's day. |
I am not sure I understand this one. Symbolism dictates that we should wear clothing that reflects an attitude of reverence. If a Bishop or Branch president asks that the Aaronic priesthood holders to wear a certain kind of dress, then that requirement is one that is meant to stress to the young men exactness and fidelity to the task at hand. If a young man fights the requirement, it may indicate a underlying problem of disobedience to a simple yet symbolically significant request. Sometimes, obedience in small things is required for us to learn submission of our own wills, even with something as seemingly insignificant as wearing a white shirt and tie.
(Could we liken this to the story of Naaman, who was asked to do the simple act of washing in River Jordan 7 times? He was initially angry at the mundane simplicity of the task, but relented at the request of his servant and was healed see 2 Kings 5:13)
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9. We already have a garment that really has symbolic meaning; and we take great measures to "cover" that item of clothing with all sorts of clothes. There's a reason for that: beware of pride. |
Are you really saying that we cover our garments because of pride? I was under the impression all of these years that it had more to do with decency and morality. I know what you mean however, and I believe our outer clothing should reflect our state of mind (shorts and a tee shirt at the beach vs nice dress at church) and reflect simplicity rather then show.
For our Aaronic priesthood holders, the white shirt and tie might represent a oneness of purpose. That oneness may be needed in a particular Branch or Ward and should be at the discretion of the Branch president or Bishop. Furthermore teenagers (at least I was) are slouchy by nature, and a dress requirement may be inspired counsel to reflect the seriousness of the ordinance rather then it just a regular activity they may do in school or at work.
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10. Making other clothing sacred socially is idolatry and can lead to pride and damnation. |
What? I do not think we have made the White shirt and tie sacred. We already have standards that require us to wear clothing that is not too revealing. To add the symbolism to our dress is not about idolatry, but about the symbolism of united purpose and thought that is part of the Sacrament. We are trying to change the teenager from being a part of the society of youth and frivolity to one of respect and seriousness and eventually adulthood. Taking part in the Sacrament should be part of the latter.
After all of this I do acknowledge however that a focus on the inner clothing is infinitely more important then the outer clothing. But I do believe that the outer clothing can affect the inner, to a certain extent, if kept in context.
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D&C 124: 116 116 And let him repent of all his folly, and clothe himself with charity; and cease to do evil, and lay aside all his hard speeches;
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