Lier- its ok, i was pretty shy too, still am kinda. I have never really fit in and am constandly aware of everything and fail to just...flow i guess. Recently...what i say to myself is, i dont care just do it. and i go out and explode in emotion or whatever i want to express, still keeping it..."pg-13;)" and i dont do it in an impolote manor. MAybe you should just chill out, and just say so what...whats the big deal..whats gunna happen...once u chill out...its alright
Shallow's go for Shallow's... both girls and guys who are shallow go for shallow relationships with other shallow people... cant be too much to a relationship if they make out and stuff and then discover they are with a loser eh ?...I guess shallow's attract other shallow's...
and looks have zero to do with it... anyone can fall for a loser... Just life!
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and looks have zero to do with it... anyone can fall for a loser... Just life! |
QUOTE (LDS_forever @ 1-Dec 03, 1:51 PM) |
Are you? really? Lei, I cannot believe that. I saw your pic and you don't look shy at all!!! |
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Heh, looks can be decieving. smile.gif I am one of the shyest people you will meet. Unless i'm surrounded by people I know, I go all quiet and give like 1 word answers. One forums....well thats a whole different story. I don't accually have to look you all int he face and say stuff so I can be WAY more outgoing here. |
So would you guys say that being shallow, or looking only at the other persons physical charateristcs is a bad thing. I watched a show about how, when we are born, the "good looking males and females" have different chemicals in their body which attract males or females. Appearently, Men who are good looking (or symetrical) smell better than other men.
That was a little off the topic..but i thought id say that..but what do you think..Maybe being driven by looks isnt such a bad thing, but in the end (should it be bad) it certainly teaches us a lesson
Not sure if I fully understand that but i think there is a fine line between being shallow and going for looks. Being shallow means you care nothing of someones feelings, and you just want to use them for things like sex. Going for looks, to me is just placing that as one of the things I look for in a girl. I also look for personality because if I don't like their personality I won't go for em.