You did not say where you are from but I will assume Trinidad based on your IP. Your best help is to join the Autism Parents Association of Trinidad & Tobago - APATT. Its the only place you will actually get most of the information you need to about services, help and tips with regards to raising a child on the spectrum in Trinidad and Tobago.
JB its terrible that your children have to be home because our politicians can't get their priorities straight. They spending millions on all kinds of things and not helping the children. Come on parliament we talking children now this is not a fete.