Best Way To Leave Abusive Boyfriend
Name: Bonnie
Comments: I've loved him for many years but in the past few months he's shown that we cannot remain together but he 's gotten so abusive that I fear for life. he's also threatened my family, friends and I. What do I do to make sure things don't get worst and include others that aren't part of this.
That's an unfortunate position to be in. I'm not any expert on this but from what I've seen others go through its about timing. You will need to bring the authorities involved and maybe take some proof where he's made these threats. Put all your love ones on alert and then get out of there before its too late! Make sure you understand that its not your fault what he chooses to do after you leave.
I have been an abusive boyfriend and can say from my experience the only thing that will stop this cycle is to call the police or leave the relationship.
The way I see it you need to either pack up and leave. Possibly when he is out of the house to avoid a confrontation.
Or you need to call the police when he is being physically abusive. He will go to jail and possibly have a chance to change himself if he realizes how messed up he is acting.
I think the first option would be better for all but don't leave then go right back to him. If you intend to get back with him you need to cut off almost all contact and let him sit in his anger. After a couple of months or so maybe give him another chance if he seems to have sincerely changed.
This is just my opinion though and I am not a professional.