
QUOTE (FunXueYei @ 22-Feb 04, 2:10 AM) |
What if your friend abondons you, what would you do then? If she all of a sudden just didnt talk to you, and misused your trust..wat would u do then? |
hmmm...perhaps i didnt post a clear enough answer.
During our sophomore year, Kirsten kinda just left me behind...she would talk to me in band, but during lunch and after school and stuff she would ditch me.
I was sorta confused, and since she was still nice to me, but just didnt hang with me, i just didnt really do anything. I was afraid to talk to her cuz she was my only friend then, and i didnt want to lose her. But a month later she apperently got bored with whoever she was hanging with and went back to me. Later on i asked her if she realized i was sad, she said she didnt and apologized. We're still best friends, and i dont know what i would do without her! I didnt leave her, she left me, and i didnt know what to really do so i wondered around and found a new little group of people to sit and talk with. When she came back and wantd to hang, i readily let her!! I didnt hold a grudge on her.
As for the "ageist" remarks, those are generalizations. The "sophomore mentality" i was reffering to was MINE, being that i wasnt experienced enough to know what to do. And "as most freshman are", im sorry, but it is true that most freshman are a wee bit annoying. But hes still a cool dude, and i like hanging with him.
Sorry if i offended you, but those are my opinions, and im open to posting them.