QUOTE (JB@Trinidad @ 20-May 04, 5:41 PM) |
Gaucho, stop, neither AGene or myself have expressed what you are implying in your post. You are seeing this from one perspective only and keep changing the lines to defend what you said earlier. It is your view though, no one can change that. |
I fully understand both sides. I agree with lots of things expressed by JB and Agene and other things expressed by Gaucho. One thing I know for sure, we cannot go to a member or non-member house and tell them to turn off the TV! please! let's use our common sense, it is not our place or house to tell others what to do in their own home. Now, it doesn't mean we should actively participate in what they are doing but definetly we should not tell them what to do.
Now, we need to keep in mind that some less active members may be testing our Faith and if they see we fall then they may not trust us as before.
The whole purpose of fellowshipping is caring about our brothers and sisters, no matter what they do or do not, our responsibility is seeking after them, not judge them so if the guy would have ask me if I don't mind to watch the game with him, instead of getting on my horse and tell him that I cannot because is the Sabbath ( a guy who have been inactive for 10 years!) I may choose to say, 'No today thanks, but we just felt we needed to come by and tell you hello'.
QUOTE (tenaheff @ 20-May 04, 10:17 AM) |
AGene, would you mind posting the actual quotes to which you are referring? |
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To me, just because someone says it doesn't necessarily make it doctrine. If my prophet says specifically no one should watch sports on television, that is hard to dispute, but if a member of the seventy gives a talk where they say we shouldn't do it, it may be no more than their interpretation of what honoring the sabbath means. |
Agene, thank you for taking the time to post those quotes. I read them. Not one tells me specifically that
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watching |
I have to breathe a sigh here... do we need to be commanded in all things? Why is something only correct if it was once said? Remember the ideal of A, B, C to get into the Kingdom? Sabbath observance is one of those things that you can almost do without and still get a recommend (save for partaking sacrament and attending Priesthood meeting). However, we have been told many times that if we turn from the ways of the world then we will be that much blessed (grade A or . So this is what it comes down to... do we want A, B, or C? No one is calling you a sinner if you want 'C', the Brethren are merely saying... 'there is a better way' there is grade A and we have to recognize that they will NEVER teach you to just earn a C, once we come to understand that we will not have to kick against the pricks. Now, to deal with the subject matter. I feel that most of this started when I commented about Gaucho' light minded (in my opinion) statement about how he could watch the game and do the visit at the same time. My point here was not so much about if they sat and watched the game, my point was the attitude behind it. In other words, (and I am not picking on you Gaucho, yeah I know, it seems like I am, its just I cannot make fun about doctrinal topics in the least) it is like saying... now I get to watch the game because 'they choose it, not me' how fortunate. In my mind I would be thinking... darn, that game is such a distraction, we need to come up with unique ways to avoid it for the next visit. Maybe arrange a different day, etc.
No. We don't need to be commanded in all things. That actually is what I am trying to say. Because we are not commanded in all things, it is up to the individual to decide what is appropriate and what is not. That is why I say that we have not established beyond any question that it breaks the sabbath to watch sports on TV.
This doesn't mean that we should watch it. I am just saying that when discussing whether or not Gaucho should have watched that game, we shouldn't take the position that he broke the sabbath by doing so. To me, he broke the sabbath by doing so if he had decided beforehand that it is inappropriate to watch sports on the sabbath. If that is a decision he made about what he considers to be acceptable to do on the sabbath, then he should stick with it. If not, we cannot say he broke the sabbath. We can say, we wouldn't have done so because it is something we choose not to do as we observe the sabbath and why.
I agree that Gaucho's statement did seem to be a bit lightminded. Of course, it could have been his attempt at making some humor, but I agree that we are better off not discussing doctrinal topics unless we want to do so with a seriousness of mind because not only have endowed members covenanted not to be lightminded, but also because we could very well be misunderstood.
Edited: tenaheff on 21st May, 2004 - 11:43am
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I am just saying that when discussing whether or not Gaucho should have watched that game, we shouldn't take the position that he broke the sabbath by doing so. To me, he broke the sabbath by doing so if he had decided beforehand that it is inappropriate to watch sports on the sabbath. |
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I agree that we are better off not discussing doctrinal topics unless we want to do so with a seriousness of mind |
Folks, based on the example Gaucho gave, the first responsibility is to show the less active member some love and care, whether he was watching a game, washing his car or anything of that kind, it doesn't matter. I remember reading a story of a guy who was a less active member for years. He smoke and drink, swear, anything you can imagine. He had a wonderful Home Teacher who would come every Sunday afternoon to see how he was doing and invite him to Church. He never told him why he was drinking a beer or why he was washing his car on the Sabbath, the only thing the guy did was to smile, be pleasant and invite him to Church. For months this home teacher did the same thing over and over and over....and you can well imagine the end of this story.
We are not here to judge anybody and we are not here to be so limited about our beliefs like "Is it written?" "Is it doctrine"?. Do we really need to think this way?. We are missing so much when we try to rationalize what God has commanded us to do. To care about the sick and afflicted and help each other in the best of our abilities. So really whether Gaucho thinks or not that he broke the Sabbath doesn't make a difference to me, because this is a personal choice and we are nobody to judge that. I personally said I would handle it differently, but this again is my personal choice.